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Most of my ex's were quite nice, but had hidden things from me. I never go for bad guys. I get angry when people always put all women into the same box. lol. We don't ALL like bad men. Some us prefer nicely-behaved and civil. I can't speak for the one's who DO like bad men, but from what I read on the forum, if they're not good in bed then they're not worthy of a relationship. I think that's awful. How about you? Isn't it high-schoolish at best? He could treat you so good, yet you could be giving away the best guy you ever had, all because "he was no good in bed". If a man comes along, and it feels right. So right, and you know it, then you may be taking a big risk, by sending him running to another woman. Maybe the other woman is less judgemental about his performance in bed, so how can I blame him, if he felt pressured by that? I would want to run off too, if a guy treat me like that. Wow. If it's all about sex, then it's hardly a loving relationship. If you're only in it for sex, just say so, instead of being crass by dumping them because you expected a great performance. Maybe you're just after an intimate encounter, but you just can't admit it, because let's be very frank here, saying you want a relationship sounds much more decent. So of course, the mask gets put on again. Typical of today's immoral society to have some think that a man or woman isn't worth their time, just because they're not experienced in the sexual dept. These people are obviously making a big mistake. I real feel bad for their kids. It's the kids who always suffer the most. Do I believe sex is important? Sure I do. However I think anyone who doesn't know what they're doing can easily be taught what to do, by their mate. TV and the internet, even magazines brainwash people into "go for this" , or "look this way". It's ridiculous. Oh yeah, and they know how to subliminally get people to fall out of grace. People started falling out with the church in the 60's, with the free love, hippie movement. Now we see the result. Now today, it's an "all about me" individualistic society. Granted,luckily there are still a good number of good spirited people out there. And I'm not saying someone has to go to church or be religious to be a good person. Everyone has different preferences. Some may be fine with teaching those that are inexperienced, while others may have no interest in doing so. Does that make one or the other wrong? Of course not. IMO, I believe if someone is in love with another, regardless of whether they're male or female, they will take the time to help the one they love do it right. Sex isn't rocket science. He should know better not to stick it in her ear. 
Then again, some people are into some strange things I would assume. 
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Genuine nice guys do not whine that they're finishing last and that they never get what they want. They don't even use the nice guy label. The whiny "nice guys" aren't really all that nice. It all comes down to sincerity. Yes, there are guys out there just to get laid. And other men who do make the good and real nice guys look bad. Nice, moral friendly guys have sexual urges too, although some may be better at controlling those urges. However, genuine nice guys will not force themselves onto, or just use women for sex. Some guys are wolves. Some guys are wolves dressed in sheeps clothing. And then some men are sheep, with a little wolf in them. Men can be called pigs, which some are. Male and female sexuality is different too. Our role is to impregnate women to produce offspring, and we do get urges to do that and more. Some will get the chances, and some won't. It's controlling oneself, which is real damn hard to do in our teens. Women have their urges too, let's not forget. We're only human. I have Christian beliefs, so I believe in no intercourse until marriage. Will have to look and see if bj's are part of the not to do list. Haha! |
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2KidsMom
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Genuine nice guys do not whine that they're finishing last and that they never get what they want. They don't even use the nice guy label. The whiny "nice guys" aren't really all that nice. This...in fact they are complete assZ- Holes |
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Most of my ex's were quite nice, but had hidden things from me. I never go for bad guys. I get angry when people always put all women into the same box. lol. We don't ALL like bad men. Some us prefer nicely-behaved and civil. I can't speak for the one's who DO like bad men, but from what I read on the forum, if they're not good in bed then they're not worthy of a relationship. I think that's awful. How about you? Isn't it high-schoolish at best? He could treat you so good, yet you could be giving away the best guy you ever had, all because "he was no good in bed". If a man comes along, and it feels right. So right, and you know it, then you may be taking a big risk, by sending him running to another woman. Maybe the other woman is less judgemental about his performance in bed, so how can I blame him, if he felt pressured by that? I would want to run off too, if a guy treat me like that. Wow. If it's all about sex, then it's hardly a loving relationship. If you're only in it for sex, just say so, instead of being crass by dumping them because you expected a great performance. Maybe you're just after an intimate encounter, but you just can't admit it, because let's be very frank here, saying you want a relationship sounds much more decent. So of course, the mask gets put on again. Typical of today's immoral society to have some think that a man or woman isn't worth their time, just because they're not experienced in the sexual dept. These people are obviously making a big mistake. I real feel bad for their kids. It's the kids who always suffer the most. Do I believe sex is important? Sure I do. However I think anyone who doesn't know what they're doing can easily be taught what to do, by their mate. TV and the internet, even magazines brainwash people into "go for this" , or "look this way". It's ridiculous. Oh yeah, and they know how to subliminally get people to fall out of grace. People started falling out with the church in the 60's, with the free love, hippie movement. Now we see the result. Now today, it's an "all about me" individualistic society. Granted,luckily there are still a good number of good spirited people out there. And I'm not saying someone has to go to church or be religious to be a good person. Everyone has different preferences. Some may be fine with teaching those that are inexperienced, while others may have no interest in doing so. Does that make one or the other wrong? Of course not. IMO, I believe if someone is in love with another, regardless of whether they're male or female, they will take the time to help the one they love do it right. Sex isn't rocket science. He should know better not to stick it in her ear.
Then again, some people are into some strange things I would assume.
Not everyone who has sex is going to be in love. |
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Genuine nice guys do not whine that they're finishing last and that they never get what they want. They don't even use the nice guy label. The whiny "nice guys" aren't really all that nice. This...in fact they are complete assZ- Holes 
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Genuine nice guys do not whine that they're finishing last and that they never get what they want. They don't even use the nice guy label. The whiny "nice guys" aren't really all that nice. You said what I always say to these threads.
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there is nice guys out there its sad that a man these days forgot how to be a man its all about who get laid sad even the woman are getting to be the same realy sad romanc . use to mean something
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Most of my ex's were quite nice, but had hidden things from me. I never go for bad guys. I get angry when people always put all women into the same box. lol. We don't ALL like bad men. Some us prefer nicely-behaved and civil. I can't speak for the one's who DO like bad men, but from what I read on the forum, if they're not good in bed then they're not worthy of a relationship. I think that's awful. How about you? Isn't it high-schoolish at best? He could treat you so good, yet you could be giving away the best guy you ever had, all because "he was no good in bed". If a man comes along, and it feels right. So right, and you know it, then you may be taking a big risk, by sending him running to another woman. Maybe the other woman is less judgemental about his performance in bed, so how can I blame him, if he felt pressured by that? I would want to run off too, if a guy treat me like that. Wow. If it's all about sex, then it's hardly a loving relationship. If you're only in it for sex, just say so, instead of being crass by dumping them because you expected a great performance. Maybe you're just after an intimate encounter, but you just can't admit it, because let's be very frank here, saying you want a relationship sounds much more decent. So of course, the mask gets put on again. Typical of today's immoral society to have some think that a man or woman isn't worth their time, just because they're not experienced in the sexual dept. These people are obviously making a big mistake. I real feel bad for their kids. It's the kids who always suffer the most. Do I believe sex is important? Sure I do. However I think anyone who doesn't know what they're doing can easily be taught what to do, by their mate. TV and the internet, even magazines brainwash people into "go for this" , or "look this way". It's ridiculous. Oh yeah, and they know how to subliminally get people to fall out of grace. People started falling out with the church in the 60's, with the free love, hippie movement. Now we see the result. Now today, it's an "all about me" individualistic society. Granted,luckily there are still a good number of good spirited people out there. And I'm not saying someone has to go to church or be religious to be a good person. Everyone has different preferences. Some may be fine with teaching those that are inexperienced, while others may have no interest in doing so. Does that make one or the other wrong? Of course not. IMO, I believe if someone is in love with another, regardless of whether they're male or female, they will take the time to help the one they love do it right. Sex isn't rocket science. He should know better not to stick it in her ear.
Then again, some people are into some strange things I would assume.
Not everyone who has sex is going to be in love. Oh I know that! Lust and love are two different things. Both feelings can be very difficult to control for most people. |
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there is nice guys out there its sad that a man these days forgot how to be a man its all about who get laid sad even the woman are getting to be the same realy sad romanc . use to mean something This is because most people are trying to emulate the people they see on these TV shows. The networks and the people in charge of them only care about profit, not about how moral their society is. It's also in the pop culture music vids, alcohol and various other commercials, directed towards youth. |
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