Or become a belt notch

Hello!

If the problem is that there aren't any single women your age in your area my advice would be to broaden your age range and/ or your area. It worked for me.

It does sound like you are going for the wrong type of women though, or making excuses. The advice to start off just as friends is good, especially on here. The women on this site will tend to ignore you if they think that you only want them for one thing. Try not commenting on profile pictures and respond to things that they say about themselves on their profiles, if you haven't already been doing that.

Whatever you are doing at the moment obviously isn't working anyway and if you feel like crap and have no confidence you aren't going to atract anybody. On the other hand, they tend not to like it if you are pushy. The last woman that I met through this asked me out and I wasn't even trying to chat her up. She just liked my profile and a lot of them seem to, so maybe work on that. Making a good first impression is crucial with internet dating.

Right on :) It's about the natural serotonin high you get from laughing.

Well if you are sending emails and starting off by saying something to those dumb *** women like, OMG you are hot...yep they are going to just ignore you!
The last thing we look for is an email like that. To me that sends out many red flags...I thing oh wow there is a winner that wants to get laid and walk away.
Just try saying something like: Just want to say hello and I hope your day is going good. That might get you an answer back.
If you have been here for 2 years and only have 60 some posts then you need to come to the community rooms a little bit more and mingle!!!

am david, i believe in love because i have loved before but, right now is so difficult to get a woman to love me... how can i get a girl to love me... i need answers

Yup, I just read your profile dude and although this isn't the profile rating forum, I'm going to say to you that I'm not surprised that you aren't getting anywhere with that. "I've got nothing to say and just look at the pics" is lame and really does make you sound very superficial and uninteresting.

Well, I find, be charming, be realistic but most of all, just be yourself.. You cant GET her to love you, but you can GET her to fall in love with you.

OP, either she will want you, or she won't. You can't force these things to magically happen. Your profile pic show's you in some sort of nightclub, which may appeal to a clubbing type. I'm not sure what your type is.

...Always...
but that's besides the point.
Stop relying on the pictures to do the job for you, and go out and do ur thang.

I like to believe it is. Having friends and family living their happily ever afters don't help trust me I know..but I'm sure it will present itself when it needs to.

I believe in love... and this is coming from a soon to be divorced woman.

You just have to be willing to wait for it. Love is the one thing in life you really don't want rushed.