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Topic: Do you believe in longdistance love affair???
savvy_jim Joined Tue 08/20/13 Posts: 7	Mon 08/26/13 08:43 AM Edited by savvy_jim on Mon 08/26/13 08:44 AM
I was in one for three years. I think it can work if the couple has a definite plan, i.e., we'll keep this up for one to three years and then you or I will move nearby. But: if the long distance is indefinite, then I'm not very hopeful it can or will last without heartache and pain. Human beings are made to be together, in close proximity, however much failed relationships happen as a result. Just my two cents.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 08/26/13 09:46 AM
I wouldn't say the thought has ever crossed my mind. It's nice that some HAVE found love that way, but even so, it won't change a thing for us types who like to hug every night. I just can't do the far away thing. If I pretended I could, just to please others, I'd be lying. Can't please EVERYONE. lol. But who would want to anyway? ;)

Nfatoman Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 1	Mon 08/26/13 10:29 AM
love doesn't know borders.If there is sincerity anything is possible.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15205	Mon 08/26/13 04:31 PM
If i wouldnt i would not of looked for a place like this ! yeah, i agree with this.. if people dont believe with a long distance relationship then what are they doing on dating site? play, cheat or. scamming??? Many people meet someone nearby off a datesite. Within 2-4 hours drive that is not far. Also people in larger cities meet someone in the same city.

0CoverG50 Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 12	Tue 08/27/13 12:50 AM
friendship YES but love affair depends with how faithful the couples are!

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Tue 08/27/13 03:29 AM
Yes,i believe in long distance love,not lust though.Genuine and honest love knows no distance.My brother found the love of his life in one dating site.The lady is German,my brother went to Germany to meet her.They are still married since 2004 and have kids.Our culture differs from hers but she loves our strong believe in marriage without option of divorce,unlike the western countries.They visit nigeria once every year.This is a testimony!

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Tue 08/27/13 05:05 AM
Long distance relationships? Depending on the "maturity" of the individuals, absolutely! Been there done that and if the opportunity happened again, Id take it.

Shelld Joined Tue 08/27/13 Posts: 1	Tue 08/27/13 09:09 AM
Me tooooo....:((

Cynthia1759 Joined Sat 08/03/13 Posts: 1	Wed 08/28/13 05:56 AM
We only allow our thoughts to tell us we are far apart but any distance could be within reach if we have chemistry and in the meantime, we'll see the wall of distance break apart

23_vVerniy Joined Thu 09/19/13 Posts: 41	Sun 09/22/13 04:15 AM
why not.. its cool

Rizajune Joined Thu 08/22/13 Posts: 309	Sun 09/22/13 09:51 AM
I don't believe I can fall in love online. But if we actually meet and spend time together and end up falling for one another, then I'd have trouble going back to messaging from half way across the country. I'll want real hugs and kisses from then on...no more of these

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 09/22/13 11:04 AM
Nope.

Oluomomyluv Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 1	Sun 09/22/13 03:21 PM
long distance relationship is not d best all. It gives way for temptations. The ladies cant cheat their nature.

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sun 09/22/13 05:20 PM
I come from Scotland and I met a lassie from Massachusetts, when she was in the UK on holiday. I went to visit her in the States and she came back over to visit me. She wanted me to move to the States, but I had my son to look after and he was settled here at school and with his friends, etc. I asked her about moving to the UK, but she said no, because she had just started a job in Boston. So that was that. It can work yes, but I had to think about what was best for my son, rather than what was best for me!

Randomideas Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 36	Sun 09/22/13 05:44 PM
no.. been there dont that it doesnt work .sooner or later one or the other has to move closer.. someone a;lways loses.

ghing65 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 1	Sun 09/22/13 06:30 PM
I believe it depends upon the two people involve how they manage their relationship and how strong is their love with each other be, if the love is present it can find a way.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sun 09/22/13 09:39 PM
One of my cousins keeps dating immigrants, but then when they get deported, she's left heartbroken. With her it's always that nearby boyfriend turns into long-distance boyfriend. She has Schizophrenia, so I worry that this may only add to it. I wouldn't worry if the next guy she meets doesn't end up getting flown back to wherever he's from. What DO you do if they're only there temporarily? I'm here for her. But I wish she'd get a guy who wouldn't have to leave her. She has a child to one of the immigramts she dated, too. It's just a shame the child can't see it's father more.

dineshslave Joined Mon 09/16/13 Posts: 29	Mon 09/23/13 06:16 AM
I am very much attracted to interracial relationship, and to know some one from other country

dineshslave Joined Mon 09/16/13 Posts: 29	Mon 09/23/13 06:17 AM
what about inetrracial relationship? or online chatting and eamil busddies

chipangumadichi Joined Sat 06/22/13 Posts: 18	Mon 09/23/13 11:24 AM
Wow,I just lost my mojo