Good for u girlfriend!!

It doesnt happen overnight

Try to talk to someone in a casual way and you can tell if he is worth your time as you go talking and talking. However, DO NOT expect too much!

Goodluck!

LUCK,,,,,damm,,I thought it was ALL skill,lol

May be not all the percentage goes for LUCK... let's say 30%?

SKILL? can I say 50%? How about the remaining 20%?

that extra 20 percent is up to the woman. lol

can you hold up your 20 percent newg?

What will happen?
It depends on the 2 people. 2 people can get to feel for each other due to gratitude for how they treat each other, and admiration for their habits leading to compatability.

But I wonder. Did they not before, SEE each other pics in different views; See and HEAR each other via webcams, watch each other videos, and cross-question each other inexhaustibly night and day?

Why are some ANXIOUS 2 meet before that VERY important GROUND-WORK?

this is one of those YOU questions that only you can answer. its like a woman might not be feeling good so a guy thats her "type" talks to her but she not feeling him cuz she not feeling good. and theres the type of place you at like i neva take a woman out to the movies on a first date cuz its to loud and cant get to know her no chemistry...then the is thinks you two say when yall meet. for example he might say he like power rangers and you get turned off. but if you gave him a chance he likes dinner 4 2.

things....typo

chemistry, is the polite term for shaggable.?

Usually nothing...but I remember when I met my ex-husband, he tells me I snubbed him. Didn't even pay attention to him. I don't even remember meeting him the first time at all.... but at a later point we ran into each other again and BOOM...it was there.....

keep working on it
or just be friends
what else can happen?

i do not believe in this instant chemistry thing, I think people confuse lust with compatability.

Everyone is searching for that perfect feeling, that OMG feeling when you found the right one.Its not always going to happen right away.Maybe this is why most of us are still single.
Take a chance with someone you like even though he/she didnt wow you right off the bat, You might be surprised in what you find.

Chemistry is a very good thing!!!
If you dont have it and try to make it work(FORGET IT)
All you end up with is a chemical mess!!!!
Just wait for the right batch of chemicals to come along!!!

I want chemistry and brains in the same guy!!!!! Seems to be a hard thing to find and I am not quite ready to live without chemistry in my life!!!

Well now!!!
Looks up!
Hello misty!!!
Your looking mighty YUMMY tonight!!

no chemistry? try friends. sometimes a great relationship develops out of friendship and a certain chemistry developed for me once out of such a friendship. it lasted a couple of years but those were really great years and a lot of priceless memories.

but when the tsunami comes, be ready, because you are liable to be washed miles out to sea before you know it and if you are lucky then you simply drift in each others arms forever there in the tropical moonlight....lost in each other carefree and on fire.

"this also have i experienced" says the drifter...

thank you yeabigsexy.....
and s1owhand.....I have great friends and maybe one day something electric will happen...but if not, I still thank the heavens above for my friend!!!!