Been in retail sales for many years everyone has a story to tell, few are boring.

ok

same actually moi aussi

Don't speak pig latin. But here's what I didn't like during my military deployment to Haiti in mid-1990s: I'm fluent in French and would speak French to the Haitians in Port-au-Prince; they, however, talked back to me in Haitian Creole and I could maybe understand one out of every five words!!! Frustrating and not good for mission accomplishment at the time. =(

Well, for a start, YOU seem quite friendly and approachable. So I reckon you'd be quite a nice person to get to know :) You just have this certain amount of politeness, and a really sunny smile. How could anyone not like that? You're always nice to everyone, too. What with me having worked in theatre a lot, you get to know varied types of people. It helps if your forced to get along, but not EVERY time. lol. If I sense anything a bit mean from someone, my trust in them will be lower than my first thoughts of them.

I probably have had my shallow moments but think that because of the life I have had that was and is way outside of "community" looks have only been looks. I respect looks cause that's what we see, but what "I" feel is so much bigger. I say "I" because people sense others in different ways. Some feel the Vibe of a person far more than the look of a person. For example, when I hear a voice a person takes on a personality to me. Same goes for their general Vibe.

I know this is about in general, but as far as women go for me, she can be miss pretty and never come across beautiful to me if she doesn't have a certain vibe.

But it's really not about how I look at it, it's a bigger picture than all that. People have so many layers to them and we who are looking, listening or talking to them only see a very small part of what is really going on in their heads. Even though I hear people say "I'm me, what you see is what I am" I don't buy into that completely cause we are a lot more complexed than that. The more we are exposed to experience the more we take on as a part of our own personalities. It's like once you learn something you are now responsable for that new info, and that info changes us.

^^^^ That!

I Judge people by character, but I also tend to keep distance from people who seem unhygienic

otherwise, I think I Meet plenty of interesting people by treating people with respect and consideration regardless of any asthetics,,

that is similar to what my friend from Paris said about the French when we were in Quebec. She was here because her husband was an USAF pilot. She could understand the Quebecois but thought it was not really French (like they spoke in France)

Would you have been better off with English in Port Au Prince? Do they think their Creole is French? Or were they being cryptic lol?

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