To any new members out there if someone asks you to go off site in the first email don't do it. I should of listened to the folks on here who told me not to do it. He seemed genuine and real and just because I had to stop messaging him he got very angry and called me names(which I won't mention because I am a lady)and had the nerve to tell me I was a woman scammer. Still love the site and won't let one mean, angry man make me go off. Thanks for letting me vent. I have met alot of very nice people on here and glad PKH talked me into doing this.

Scammers try to get you offsite first. The site will delete scammers. If someone is wanting you offsite, report them as a possible scammer and let the admin look into it.

The problem is that I went off site and got yahoo instant messenger and started chatting with him the conversation didn't happen on this site. Admin can't help with that can they?

No we can't. Off site is out of our jurisdiction. We can't confirm one way or another. It's a he said/she said.

I figured that and it is my own fault. Lesson learned! Thanks

Oh boy ill give you a call so you can fill me in

Rule no# 1 never go offsite wt any online date