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Topic: Is Virginity a good thing?
neverbeforedone's photo
Sat 07/06/13 04:53 PM
Hello,
As you may guess from the topic, i'm a Virgin, looking for a GF.


But the main topic of this post is to find out if virginity is a turn on or a turn off?
for men and woman alike.


(PS: Sorry if there is any spelling mistakes, Dyslexia is a pain)

AvengingAngel's photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:24 PM
At least girls will know that
you have no STD's

soufiehere's photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:29 PM
Is this a trick question?

no photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:33 PM
It is a turn on for any girl that is mature and knows what she wants. In fact if you come clean about it on a date, the girl will go home thinking "I've met a wonderfull guy".

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:36 PM
There is nothing wrong with a never-married adult being a virgin.

neverbeforedone's photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:40 PM
No tricks, just wondering as the last time i told a girl i got close to, she left rather quickly.
A rather odd woman and i'm rather glad it didn't go farther xD

And yes, no STD's are always a +

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 07/06/13 05:44 PM
There are some people who don't respect the decision by others to remain virgins until marriage, if that is what they want.

There is nothing wrong with one choosing to remain a virgin if one has never been married.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 07/06/13 06:05 PM
You're only 22. No, it's not weird or a turnoff.

no photo
Sat 07/06/13 06:23 PM
Im sure you've had your reasons for remaining a virgin. validiation comes from within tho. what do you think about it? are you specifically looking for an experience just to end your virginity / (generally sex for the sake of saying it's been done is not the best...)

personally since you have asked, I think it is unusual but also kind of refreshing to see a man take time to find the right person.

KissesnHugs4U31's photo
Sat 07/06/13 06:28 PM
It just depend on the person. Personally, I believe its a good thing. It just mean you're not 1 of those men who sleep around and give yourself to just anybody. It means you're pure! :smile:

Solace84's photo
Sat 07/06/13 06:43 PM
Nothing wrong with that...as long as you enjoy being a virgin..... But remember don't remain a virgin while you married...hehehe

soufiehere's photo
Sat 07/06/13 07:49 PM
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1Cynderella's photo
Sat 07/06/13 07:58 PM
At my age, I doubt that I will be finding a virgin. :laughing:

I think the only way you can find someone right for you, is by being true to yourself by continuing to do what is right for you. flowerforyou




1Cynderella's photo
Sat 07/06/13 08:00 PM

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Darn it! I always miss all the fun. frustrated

krishk20's photo
Sat 07/06/13 08:58 PM


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Darn it! I always miss all the fun. frustrated
I missed that too. Darn!

no photo
Sat 07/06/13 09:06 PM
You need a teacher. bigsmile

In order to have a lasting true relationship you should learn from a qualified sex surrogate. Seriously.

lilredhollyhood's photo
Sun 07/07/13 12:56 AM
Edited by lilredhollyhood on Sun 07/07/13 12:57 AM
Nothing wrong with holding out. Society only makes it seem that if you don't do A by the age of B you're wrong. Don't let society make you its puppet.

neverbeforedone's photo
Sun 07/07/13 02:44 AM
Thank you to everyone for the kind words, lots of good feed back.

I'm not too fussed about keeping mine, not found anyone for me, nor do I go out and have one nighters.
I guess sex would be great but I can wait for the right time and person.
Again thank you and feel free to add more :D

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 07/07/13 03:52 AM
Do you really need validation from a bunch of forum people? Also, does it really matter if anyone on here knows you're a virgin? Just wondering why you feel the need to justify whether you are, is all.

neverbeforedone's photo
Sun 07/07/13 09:35 AM
No and no. I am merely interested in the views of others. It shouldn't matter if the people are online or not, they still have minds. The only reason I've said I am is in my last post, I've had some people be odd about it so being open earlier stops any silly problems later.
and lastly not here to fight, just to be friends and search fir that special person

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