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Big turn offs for me include being rude to waitstaff, poor hygiene, and arrogance  They wouldn't DARE! 
And yet they DID! 
Just put square wheels on their wagons...that'll fix em. 
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Sun 07/07/13 04:09 PM
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Chewing with their mouth open. That's disgusting! 
So is chewing gum with one's mouth open! Coughing without turning one's head! Spitting while talking! I totally felt I needed an umbrella! 
" *wipes face off* (charming) want the news! not the weather! I have a bunch, so I waited for others to answer first, day dates with single mothers that let the child run the show, this one doesn't end very well,I will intervene eventually. Might as well get her crying too, sometimes it backfires, & she ends up liking you  for the wrong reasons.
or if she doesn't wash after dealing with her childs bodily functions , (yuk).Or mother only conversation is about the child, (diaper talk, toilet training) as its been her day in day out life for a long time, which makes them socially awkward. (general) people scraping their teeth on the cutlery, I cant stand that. complaining too much, or rude with the server's, or telling me I better not tip. As far as her being my guest then I don't mind her being suggestive & saying "she did a really good job, let's make sure "we" leave her a good tip" look at the bill if you want, but don't scrutinise it with too much negatively. do not intervene or undermine me as I'm paying the bill, that one might get you a kick in the a*s I'm not talking about offering to pay a portion either, thats fine to be a little pushy, but I would say no. talking at me about nothing, a conversation is two-way and when you do jump in, they reply with a yeah &.bla bla failing to engage in any conversation. hence: talking at me rushing me at a fancy place, walking out ahead as I'm paying, walking in ahead and all the other bad manner stuff that was brought up. |
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They talk only about themselves and do not ask any questions. A complete "know it all." Interview dates. Texting during the time they are with you. Ex talk (build a bridge and get over it). Not opening the doors for me. Looking and commenting on other women while on the date with you. I am sure I can figure out more. Lol
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They talk only about themselves and do not ask any questions. A complete "know it all." Interview dates. Texting during the time they are with you. Ex talk (build a bridge and get over it). Not opening the doors for me. Looking and commenting on other women while on the date with you. I am sure I can figure out more. Lol agreed - ant of those would invite a hasty exit lol |
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I have had very nice dates. I do not like cheap men, so I usually get all that out of the way by talking and communicating that before I meet any man online, inperson. It works out well for me that way.
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Chewing with their mouth open. That's disgusting!
So is chewing gum with one's mouth open! Coughing without turning one's head! Spitting while talking! I totally felt I needed an umbrella!
" *wipes face off* (charming) want the news! not the weather! I have a bunch, so I waited for others to answer first, day dates with single mothers that let the child run the show, this one doesn't end very well,I will intervene eventually. Might as well get her crying too, sometimes it backfires, & she ends up liking you for the wrong reasons.
or if she doesn't wash after dealing with her childs bodily functions , (yuk).Or mother only conversation is about the child, (diaper talk, toilet training) as its been her day in day out life for a long time, which makes them socially awkward. (general) people scraping their teeth on the cutlery, I cant stand that. complaining too much, or rude with the server's, or telling me I better not tip. As far as her being my guest then I don't mind her being suggestive & saying "she did a really good job, let's make sure "we" leave her a good tip" look at the bill if you want, but don't scrutinise it with too much negatively. do not intervene or undermine me as I'm paying the bill, that one might get you a kick in the a*s I'm not talking about offering to pay a portion either, thats fine to be a little pushy, but I would say no. talking at me about nothing, a conversation is two-way and when you do jump in, they reply with a yeah &.bla bla failing to engage in any conversation. hence: talking at me rushing me at a fancy place, walking out ahead as I'm paying, walking in ahead and all the other bad manner stuff that was brought up. 
All the other stuff Pony....I gotta ask, where the devil are you picking up women? You have a list of rudness a mile long. This has ALL happened to you? 
Dude! We just gotta find you a better placed to shop. 
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I dealt with a woman who i thought was true to me...but after a year I found that I didn't believe a word she said. And to prove she was lying was an awesome task in itself. I don't think she cheated, but I didn't trust her because her stories where so outrageous and over the top, I could stand it anymore. What do you do with a person like that? Especially when you know they are lying but cannot prove it? I really don't know Yabba. I really try to give people the benefit of the doubt...where there is real doubt it's much harder to do that. Sorry for your frustration. 
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I dealt with a woman who i thought was true to me...but after a year I found that I didn't believe a word she said. And to prove she was lying was an awesome task in itself. I don't think she cheated, but I didn't trust her because her stories where so outrageous and over the top, I could stand it anymore. What do you do with a person like that? Especially when you know they are lying but cannot prove it? You trust your awareness in a situation like that!
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Please save "sopping up the gravy with your bread in public".
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Probably the hardest thing for me to deal with is when someone complains about their previous choices. You pretty much have to figure if you continue the date you will be the next one on their whine and dine list.
Why people can't figure out their "picker" is broke when they have a series of crummy dates why not take a "time out" or change your criteria for who you are picking to ask out. I personally am kind of freaked out when I go out with someone who's ex looks like a clone for me. I know guys seem to have a type they like but I don't want to be a substitute or duplicate of prior attractions. |
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