How much do u feel you are willing yo put up with in a relationship....

If you mean negative stuff, then not much. I'll only end up leaving because I have no room for crap in my life.

enough is enough when it's not too much, but not too little. properly apportioned and cut to precision. don't forget to factor in wind resistance.

I use my negative meter. If either I or the other is making that meter go off there is reason for concern. If it doesn't get resolved in a peaceful way I am fast with my scissors. I'm not mean, just direct. It doesn't do them any good to be in a negative relationship so why would I want them to suffer? Not my nature to be involved in painful relationships. It isn't their fault or mine (I don't play the blame game, or at least don't play it after my selfish hurt rant is over). Moving them and myself on to a happy place is where I like to live. I'm this way with a partner, family, friends, workers and acquaintances.

misery loves company is not on my radar

don't understand it and don't have room for it

There's only 24 hours in a day, and how I spend them makes a difference in someones life. If I can't be a positive am I a benefit?

I look at it two ways, am I building up or tearing down.

I'm OK until the person misspells "to."

When I notice I am feeling my happiness slipping away, time to go. I have a natural happiness that took me a long time to find in myself and cultivate in myself. I won't let others/life/anything take it from me. So if that happiness starts slipping, I have to go.

When the "bads" outweigh the "goods" it's time to say "G bye".

When I feel the relationship is no longer there and nothing is left but animosity.

not a whole lot in a personal relationship...it has to bring contentment or I'd rather be alone

Life is way to short to put up with any thing negative.
When I have to say when is enough enough..it is way
past time to end that relationship!!
IF you are asking yourself about the relationship, then
make a list about the positives and negatives. That
should give you your answer. Unless of course you like
to be unhappy and you like chaos??

as soon as d love disappears dn its enough

as soon as d love disappears dn its enough

Life is what you make it. Change begins with you. If the problem isn't you, it isn't your problem to begin with.

Anyway, love doesn't HAVE TO hurt. So why make anything such a big issue?

I would think enough would be enough when you start to refer to your partner as someone you have to "put up" with?

Do NOT put up with any kind of abuse.

Put up with what?

If the cooking is good then I can tolerate a lot.