Looking for Sex..

a. Is it crime..?
b. Is it sin..?
c. Is it abuse to society..?
d. Is it kind of disease..?
e. or Else..?

Its a question to, who cares too much & never respond to their physical or inner desire to be soft from opposite side with pre fix attitude that the ultimate would be demand of sex.

now this site i think turn to sex seekers......everybody disscussed about sex here.

it is not a crime to look for sex. it is a crime to demand it in this country.

but it's gross - to be looking for sex and nothing else means you are a sex addict possibly and possibly in need of professional help

women are not put here on earth for your gratification just so that you can have sex. not many will want to have sex with you if you are just looking for sex -we want to be seen as people - not things -not property

it is a crime to demand and "take" sex without consent

it is crime to obrain sex by applying persistent pressure even when the woman has said no or to continue to penetration if she changes her mind at any time, if you do not stop, that is a crime in this country. It does not matter how "heated" things become you must have consent.

it is annoying, shallow, even mentally unhealthy to look for sex and not understand the woman/man as a human being with feelings. whether that is a sin I guess depends on your personal religious convictions. I believe it is wrong and do not want anything to do with men who are basically "man-hos" for casual sex

it is definitely objectifying and dehumanizing the opposite gender so it is a disease

it's annoying to women who are looking for relationships to be pestered by the "no-strings" casual crowd for sex....go away and stay away....yuck. if you are getting blocked by women on here it is because you have over stepped boundaries and been disrespectful in becoming too personal or making inappropriate requests of a sexual nature. you may have a sexual "disease" in terms of your mentail health. go get help and stop bothering us.

it can be a crime to continue to harass others with sexual requests.

it is an abuse when a man obtains sex under false pretenses..lying about loving a woman or wanting a relationship just to obtain sex and then moving onto the next (literally) victim = abuse

I have a good friend on here who does psrticipate in casual sex so I do not mean to be unkind, but it is very important to be honest that casual sex is all that you are seeking or it is abusive

so it is not so much that looking for sex is wrong, it's how you handle your honesty equation and having enough maturity to leave those alone who are not looking for casual encounters.

well said sweetestgirl

thank you. it holds true for both genders. I did not mean to pick on men

agreed

y dont people ask for friendship direct approches to sex straightway how it is possible with strangers

I think it's wrong to force sex. You can't make someone want it with you. Only they can decide if they want to. If I only wanted a casual thing, I would have just said so, instead of some who waste time pretending to want a relationship. There's a big difference.

agreed but with stranger also

A well conveyed explanation.
Neither the plate-form is turning up with sex addict nor it is completely excluded.
Its a cosmopolitan society with variety of religion /nation /age group etc.
every one is responsible to nation /society & individual and binding to obey law of country, there is nothing new.
---If some one blames to male as culprit to all issue it does not debar them to their responsibility in total or as human.
Topic does not mean to purpose some one for sex but its simply a poll to collect versatile reasoning of thoughts with / changing norms of society.
Please do not pain or over react, my intention is not to insult any body.

Forcing for or using unwanted means has nothing to do with this topic.

You want to have sex with strangers? Ewww.

if she has attraction on first site but not exploit way willingly

I don't know anyplace where looking is a crime, though there are many scenarios in which doing IS.



There are religious beliefs in which even thinking about sex outside of a religiously blessed union is considered sinful.

Personally, the only sin I recognize are those against an individuals conscience, family, community or society.



I do see our society's pre-ooccupation with sexual gratification, in many circumstances, as a negative drain on society, if not just as it effects our moral standards and the level of respect in which we view sexual relationships.



I believe a constant desire for sexual stimulation CAN be a disease, just as any other obsessive behavior is likely to indicate an imbalance of our system.



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If I understand what you're asking here...personally, I consider sex as a gift to be shared between two people with an emotional connection, and therefore only give sexual urges outside of such a relationship as a craving for that kind of connection. Others can choose to satisfy each craving as they come, but I don't believe the touch of someone who doesn't love me could satisfy what I crave, so I'll save my desires for that person who can.

Some are so bad at sex, it should be a crime.

Why does SEX have to be a dirty or evil thing
When it is instilled in our deepest animal needs ?
Even the rest of the animal world breeds instinctively
And without regret,remorse or guilt...
Mankind is given the gift of higher reason and sentientcy
Not to judge but to learn and progress toward higher wisdom
Toward peaceful relations
Don't let what the rest of mankind does bother you so much
And SEEK the happiness that YOU desire my friends !
LOVE should be the focus of harmony
But SEX is a need instilled in ones soul
Pro creation is the key to immortality in mankind...
And children are the future...
Sex should be given and shared more responsibly i will agree
But inevitably it WILL always be...


JMHO

Be Blessed !

KiK

a. perfectly legal in the us
b. seeking sex for sex sake, outside of marriage is a Christian sin
c, Its not abuse to society but it is harmful to society
d. I believe its an addiction, actually
e. not really anything else, but a socially encouraged physical addiction

It's not good or bad. It's about the individuals involved, and how they feel. I personally believe sex is an intimate, spiritual experience; but I've met others that it's nothing more than fun.

Wanting sex doesn't automatically make you sick or an addict. Some people have high sex drives, others don't.

So long as both parties are fully aware of what they're doing, and 100% agreeing to do it, then that's fine. But it's not often you'll find someone with the same mind-set as you, so one side will get hurt. It's really up to you to ask yourself then, 'is my body, my physical satisfaction, of higher value than their emotional and soulful well-being?'

I think people take casual sex a bit too seriously. I wouldnt call a woman slutty or dirty if I knew she was having casual sex with a guy. Wouldnt think a guy is a user or player for the same thing. Lots of people have sexual attractions and desires but just dont have the time or emotional availability to get into a serious relationship. The way people talk sometimes makes it seem like the only way to get laid is to put a ring on someones finger (exaggerating but anyway). Casual sex is perfectly fine in my books. Dishonesty isnt, so both sides need to be on the same page. Play safe tho, you never know who he or she has been with!