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I learned, its natural desire of human mind to become special -in the ways of the world, to have quality education,specialization & super power in profession or activities, money, health, ego etc.

If we fed up with the world or stand to desire, our ego starts finding new ways with intend to enhance itself or grow it, it become spiritual awakens.
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the first stand is "karma" and next is "sanyas".
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Presence of love is must since it is the key to stimulate desire to be special.
the conclusion it..Never let die the natural desire of human to love & to be loved, do not limit it to its age, its fear or its involvement..otherwise it is just illusory or turning the life with new journey to be spiritual.
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Spicy & sweet relationship may have taste of loving & caring where as
sharing knowledge & responsibility may just keep on going.
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My topic is..

desire of love & to be loved..its validity, eligibility,approach,
limit...whether these are based on comfort or availability or depends
on....?

I don't think is a natural desire, I think is a more "learned" desire - that society shows you in different forms that with "that" (quality educat, money...etc) you will become "special" - even the concept in itself of becoming special.

EX. someone like TArzan (sureal but good ex)- he didnt care to be Special or not, he knew his uniqueness already since there was nothing else...

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The "desire of humant to love & to b loved" sometimes is wrongly motivated - ex. when is momentary for one side, or when is looked to be more selfish, - I think those should be limited, beside love in itself is a wide word since we all feel it and think of what it is differently..

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"spicey & sweet" and 'knowledge & responability" - I think finding a balance with all will be the ideal, if one is lacking then relationship won't b complete

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I think it's important to keep things spicy in a relationship. . No I don't mean food. I can get pretty down and dirty when I want to. lol. I won't talk about that too much, or I risk sounding like I'm obssesed with sex. It's just nice to think you have someone waiting for you, at the end of a working day.

---I appreciate your understanding.

I think the human psyche has a natural NEED for human contact and human relationships, bonds, and security

I don t think 'quality' education is natural, but one of many cultural tools that contribute to cultural success

money and(authoritative) power are also taught culturally as things to strive for

but, (self) power and health , I do believe, to be natural desires

agreed.
Desire is a issue to achieve, obtain, attain or accept with or without reason for sparkling,growing or boosting egos.
Where as a natural desire is what you said.

Oh,RG,you are not???

Yes,i like mine spicy too(the food,i mean)!!

Hihihiiii

Rawrr-girl

"having someone waiting for you home at the end of the working day is fulfilling"
Fully agree!