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Topic: "Maybe it's you............."
teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sat 06/22/13 02:08 PM
So I know many of you that I know have been fed the same line by both men and women, "I am so fed up with dating. If I can't make it work with you, I give up. I am not dating anymore"!! To which I say, "Ya right and monkeys might fly out of my butt"! to quote Wayne's World. I dated a guy who was fine at first be rapidly became an azz. In about a hour's span, both of his ex wives and his grown daughter were on the phone screaming at him that he was a total jerk and worse. Based on my experience with him, this was not unfounded. He turned to me and was going off on how they were so evil, I said, "Maybe it's you....." Do you know someone who is always going off on the wrongs of their exes and fails to see it may be themselves (don't count me because I know I am messed up LOL)??

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Sat 06/22/13 02:17 PM


teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sat 06/22/13 02:21 PM
You crack me up JM.

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Sat 06/22/13 02:23 PM
Why thank you! I have been hanging out with the Clown lately so mebbe that has something to do with it!

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Sat 06/22/13 02:47 PM
"Maybe it's you............." Not me i have a good rapport with my ex Even my first GF still calls me after almost 30 years hoping to get back together... {snicker}

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 06/22/13 06:41 PM
Yep, I'm not sure why after people date they forget everything about a person that was nice and only whinge and complain about the bad..probably would pay to look in the mirror first.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 06/22/13 06:47 PM
Oh it's me. It's definitely me.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15192	Sat 06/22/13 07:05 PM
Most every man I met inperson said it was the woman fault, that the "relationship" failed, except one and he was Widow man.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 06/22/13 07:06 PM
Taylor can be the problem....I'd suffer through it to have her pay my bills.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 06/22/13 07:06 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 06/22/13 07:06 PM
Most every man I met inperson said it was the woman fault, that the "relationship" failed, except one and he was Widow man. By "the woman's fault" he probably meant that she dumped his sorry butt. Thus, her fault.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15192	Sat 06/22/13 07:08 PM
Most every man I met inperson said it was the woman fault, that the "relationship" failed, except one and he was Widow man. By "the woman's fault" he probably meant that she dumped his sorry butt. Thus, her fault. Yes, I seen a few things I didn't like about them.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 06/22/13 07:56 PM
Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 06/22/13 08:00 PM
Most every man I met inperson said it was the woman fault, that the "relationship" failed, except one and he was Widow man. By "the woman's fault" he probably meant that she dumped his sorry butt. Thus, her fault. exactly

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 06/22/13 08:03 PM
Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely. OOOhhh IDK I have been in a couple situations where it definitely was his fault period he mustov been on drugs or w/e - it was T totally off the wall it's important not to "blame the victim."

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Sat 06/22/13 08:09 PM
I like to say we just grew apart No Fault Still friends ? Cool !

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 06/22/13 08:14 PM
Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely. OOOhhh IDK I have been in a couple situations where it definitely was his fault period he mustov been on drugs or w/e - it was T totally off the wall it's important not to "blame the victim." First time...you're a victim. Second time...you are part of the problem. JMO.

cmblriverman Joined Tue 06/18/13 Posts: 38	Sat 06/22/13 09:57 PM
Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely. OOOhhh IDK I have been in a couple situations where it definitely was his fault period he mustov been on drugs or w/e - it was T totally off the wall it's important not to "blame the victim." First time...you're a victim. Second time...you are part of the problem. JMO. what about the third and fourth time?

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 06/22/13 10:09 PM
Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely. OOOhhh IDK I have been in a couple situations where it definitely was his fault period he mustov been on drugs or w/e - it was T totally off the wall it's important not to "blame the victim." OOOOhhhh IDK about that. I think it is important to take responsibility. Don't blame anyone. We create and take part in our every thought, deed, decision and situation.