Every so often, something triggers the urge. I can't explain it. It sort of happens at unexpected times, day and night. I am recently separated, and have not had any intimate relations in quite some time. As for enjoyable intimate relations, that, I cannot remember. I thought I might be frigid, but a male friend of mine who lives in Italy-unable to make booty calls, tells me it is the man who makes a woman frigid.


I was on the telephone today. I called a man 2000 miles away and was dumbstruck by his voice. It was the most pleasant, soothing, sexy voice I can remember hearing. It affected me so, that I told him it was a pleasure talking to him and that he has a very nice voice. I am now preoccupied with this man. Now, keep in mind, this was an attorney. Most people would bristle at the prospects of being intimate with a defense attorney as much as a telemarketer such as myself. At the same time, I could listen to his voice for hours, hanging or swooning on every word.


I have done the marriage thing. I have done the children thing. I am seriously considering the NSA thing. Sigh...I would like a good form of exercise that is fun and releases the endorphins.


I don't know where this is going. I am just "thinking aloud". I really don't think I am alone.


Just had to get it off my chest.


Hope everyone is having a sultry sexy day.

Sometimes letting those juices flow is the best thing you can do.

Good to feel your heartbeat again I'm sure.

if you were in texas i would show you how a real relationship can be. intimacy comes in many forms, and sexual intercourse is just one of the forms. i agree with your italian friend (to some degree) that a man can make or break a women's desire

it's very difficult for a man or a woman who has become accustomed to a bad relationship to let go of all that and start out completely fresh. the old "what if's" can sabotage a new relationship before it even gets a chance. i guarantee i guarantee that you can have a healthy, loving relationship that is filled with intimacy no matter what state you live in, but texas men really are the shiznit (ask soufie)

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

S'truth :-)

just know we're listening. even those of us trolling the boards. we're all adults here and we understand. many of us can relate.

Golden! ...A lot of us have been where you are, it can be a nightmare or beautiful dream that ends in deeper self awareness and emotional healing..."No Strings Attached" is not a method of operation I would choose as a permanent lifestyle.....HOWEVER, if you approach it from the right angle and use your head during the selection process, it can be amazingly therapeutic .....Personal choices don't need to be defined or explained to anyone except the parties involved...

Leigh
You are so wise.
sigh............

She's OK .....I guess...hi Leigh
Turn them frigid at best, all mine went gay
Personaly I would! I'm in recorery and its not advised to enter a relationship within the first your
especially somebody in the same predicament, so for this reason i'll have to decline you proposition,
Thats what you meant right? just funning with you.
Well the other part is true, but I didn't quit sex either, so for me a can seperate the two, and not worry
about my sobriety, keeping in mind it is easy to swap addictions.

Pony,
What's with all the skin in your profile? No, I don't imagine you would allow me to sit on your lap.

Do I know you??!?!?????

Lol your making me laugh, your not seeing full frontals are you? Those ones are supposed to
be locked..lol oh well, I'm not that shy about my bod, sure you could sit on my lap! its a community
ride,..lol but he's just a one trip pony but always make the destination.
Well you look nice today! So thats going on cali? One day at a time.

we go way back into the middle of last week no, we just conversed once in the health sec.

she made me peek!!

If you send me one of those full frontals, it might jog my memory....

aw..my better half, my central nervous system? My "control" centre that drives my one track personality. I have a nice persanality its bin said I was going to write, ok its in your box

Pony
You're probably fun in real life or super shy and this is your alter ego.
So which is it?
We ladies want to know!

as long as there is ice cream and a massage involved, I'm in :)

Sweetest,
I read in another post that Pony handles seismic activity in wood, erm umm, trees

I have a feeling that most of the seismic activity goes on between his ears ... lol

thereby xplaining his rattled brain syndrome

Good question you asked, I think there a little bit of truth to both sides, of coarse working all day
by my self for years can tend to make us independent and inverted
I wasn't good in school other than PE, math, geography, shop so I think I had an inferior complex
with adults for some years,a think a lot was from my mother bieng negative and not believing.
By the time I was 25 I had a forestry company in the mid 9os
I found my voice years ago, I've always been private, with a brit upbringing.
Sexual I've never being shy but I can clam up with shy people.
I'm not one to start babbling because I feel I need to talk because I'm uncomfortable.
this is the first time I've been on the internet, so I'm having fun, but I'm an outgoing person & can get
Hyper I think the only time I notice that I can struggle with quiet people,but yes fun and I do
well with mellow girls to just takes until a can get in their arms. ..lol