Topic: BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO!!!
DanielG72's photo
Thu 06/13/13 03:32 PM
How Do You Break Up With Someone And Still Let Them Down Gently???brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart tears tears tears

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Thu 06/13/13 03:37 PM
Meet with the person you're breaking up with in person but somewhere private.

Tell them that you're breaking up with them. State your reasons.
Don't use the whole "it's not you it's me" nonsense.
I'm talking real reasons here.

Give them a chance to state their side.
Give your answer to their side and then walk away.

Simple as that.
Breaking up is not hard.
You just need to know how to do it.

whoa

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 06/13/13 04:26 PM
Just tell him, "we are not on the same page."
I like to Read.bigsmile

bastet126's photo
Thu 06/13/13 04:55 PM
recently, we were so good on paper, but would have been so fatal IRL, i just
stated the obvious in that regards, and that was that. not easy, but the truth
let us stay friends, at least.

kaz7x70's photo
Thu 06/13/13 07:48 PM
its not an easy task, its gonna hurt. i broke up with a man i knew cared for/loved me deeply,,i cried for 3 days, even at work,
now we're talking again after several years and im glad,,it just wasnt the right time for me then,,,so dont burn your bridges..
just be gentle, sincere, & straight forward. wish ya the best,,blessings!

soufiehere's photo
Thu 06/13/13 07:51 PM
You try everything humanly possible to make it work.
If it still does not, you walk, with no guilt.
The reasons should be obvious enough to not
have to draw a picture.

As a last resort, of course, draw a picture.

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 06/13/13 10:31 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Thu 06/13/13 10:34 PM

Meet with the person you're breaking up with in person but somewhere private.

Tell them that you're breaking up with them. State your reasons.
Don't use the whole "it's not you it's me" nonsense.
I'm talking real reasons here.

Give them a chance to state their side.
Give your answer to their side and then walk away.

Simple as that.
Breaking up is not hard.
You just need to know how to do it.

whoa



You've obviously kept better company than I!
My situations were bad, three out of four weredevil mad explode

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Fri 06/14/13 02:31 AM


Meet with the person you're breaking up with in person but somewhere private.

Tell them that you're breaking up with them. State your reasons.
Don't use the whole "it's not you it's me" nonsense.
I'm talking real reasons here.

Give them a chance to state their side.
Give your answer to their side and then walk away.

Simple as that.
Breaking up is not hard.
You just need to know how to do it.

whoa



You've obviously kept better company than I!
My situations were bad, three out of four weredevil mad explode


In those cases you'll probably want to keep your distance when you tell them you're breaking up with them.
Probably by about 50-100 feet.
Prepared to run. whoa