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I met someone here several years ago. I've been to visit him a couple times, we talk several times a day. This last visit I made now mind you we haven't seen each other for several years I got off the train no hug or kiss nothing. He says he's not into public displays of affection. I say bs. I stayed for 7 days and still really nothing. But before I came he was saying how much he loved me and couldn't wait to just cuddle and hold me never happened. It's changed everything 6 yrs of the long distance and this. He still says how much he loves me and misses me. My question is why then didn't he show it? Short answer is - He's hiding something from you and not being completely honest. Sorry but that's the truth. While it's impossible for me to say exactly what he's hiding (I don't know the person you're speaking about) it is very easy to see that he feels the need to distance himself from you because of it. Right now you only have two options. Talk to him and basically demand to know the reason or quietly walk away. After all that time getting to know each other and the visits.. on top of also staying out there for 7 days and getting basically no reaction from him what so ever can only mean that there are severe problems that need to be addressed. I wish you all the luck in the world and hope everything comes out in your favor. |
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i think i hv to leave this page u senior people talks about r fantesis and sex hahahah have a nice day n chat
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I'm afraid I have to agree with journeyman and what cutipeie said from page one. He's apparently not into you anymore?
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he's married or has a GF now but doesn't want to admit it because he's enjoyed this online fantasy you guys have going
even if you've changed in 6 yrs most guys will go for the sex if they can get it anyway....unless they're already with someone else....then there are some who will be faithful to her. |
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I met someone here several years ago. I've been to visit him a couple times, we talk several times a day. This last visit I made now mind you we haven't seen each other for several years I got off the train no hug or kiss nothing. He says he's not into public displays of affection. I say bs. I stayed for 7 days and still really nothing. But before I came he was saying how much he loved me and couldn't wait to just cuddle and hold me never happened. It's changed everything 6 yrs of the long distance and this. He still says how much he loves me and misses me. My question is why then didn't he show it? Short answer is - He's hiding something from you and not being completely honest. Sorry but that's the truth. While it's impossible for me to say exactly what he's hiding (I don't know the person you're speaking about) it is very easy to see that he feels the need to distance himself from you because of it. Right now you only have two options. Talk to him and basically demand to know the reason or quietly walk away. After all that time getting to know each other and the visits.. on top of also staying out there for 7 days and getting basically no reaction from him what so ever can only mean that there are severe problems that need to be addressed. I wish you all the luck in the world and hope everything comes out in your favor. no definitely do not move for a relationship that you are not totally happy about |
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Have I not had enough coffee yet or didn't I read something about this guy having a medical issue and had to go to the hospital?
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sorry but I would walk.if yer good enough to be with in the bedroom then yer damn sure good enough to be seen with and by with I mean pda's in public.sounds like hes just stringing you along.
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nuff said about pda's,,,im thinkin you stayed for 7 days n still nothing,,that says alot, sadly. it seems you're helping him spend his boring time (no wonder he's bored!
 ) n you're making HIM feel good about himself,,,it doesnt even matter what he's saying now that you're back home, he showed you HIMSELF while you were there..run as fast as you can n never look back, my friend! he is no longer worth youre precious time, effort, or thoughts (((((hugz)))))
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Have I not had enough coffee yet or didn't I read something about this guy having a medical issue and had to go to the hospital? yes you did maybe someone will post the update |
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Edited by
mg1959
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Mon 06/10/13 08:15 AM
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oops
hit that darn button twice, when I meant to hit it 3 times |
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Yes and I said I feel like an idiot and I've told him and he understands. Thanks Michael
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Edited by
mg1959
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Mon 06/10/13 08:54 AM
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Yes and I said I feel like an idiot and I've told him and he understands. Thanks Michael Your welcome. I don't think some of the folks saw the update, plus I don't think you should be hard on yourself. You were sincerly seeking an answer to a very real situation, and when you found out what had happen you responded responsibly and based on the details. Many would have jumped to conclusions but you were faithful and approached this with concern for the truth. Your a good gal my friend. Oh, I should add, it was Jman that spotted this. Another good soul. |
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I met someone here several years ago. I've been to visit him a couple times, we talk several times a day. This last visit I made now mind you we haven't seen each other for several years I got off the train no hug or kiss nothing. He says he's not into public displays of affection. I say bs. I stayed for 7 days and still really nothing. But before I came he was saying how much he loved me and couldn't wait to just cuddle and hold me never happened. It's changed everything 6 yrs of the long distance and this. He still says how much he loves me and misses me. My question is why then didn't he show it?  He just wants you as a friend, maybe not a lover/wife, the Chemistry is not inlove. |
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Any opinion would he speculation or assumption.
Only way to know fer sure would be to ask the dude |
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in my own opinion d guy did not expect what he saw abt u.. Wat i will advice u ,is dat try to make him happy and ask him what u hv done wrong,then u make amendment. U can still win his mind if u truly love him.gudluck.
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Yes and I said I feel like an idiot and I've told him and he understands. Thanks Michael Your welcome. I don't think some of the folks saw the update, plus I don't think you should be hard on yourself. You were sincerly seeking an answer to a very real situation, and when you found out what had happen you responded responsibly and based on the details. Many would have jumped to conclusions but you were faithful and approached this with concern for the truth. Your a good gal my friend. Oh, I should add, it was Jman that spotted this. Another good soul. Are you still seeking input on this matter Patricia? or am I missing something???....this is my specialty! (The male behaviors)  just seen the thread 
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Have I not had enough coffee yet or didn't I read something about this guy having a medical issue and had to go to the hospital? |
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I met someone here several years ago. I've been to visit him a couple times, we talk several times a day. This last visit I made now mind you we haven't seen each other for several years I got off the train no hug or kiss nothing. He says he's not into public displays of affection. I say bs. I stayed for 7 days and still really nothing. But before I came he was saying how much he loved me and couldn't wait to just cuddle and hold me never happened. It's changed everything 6 yrs of the long distance and this. He still says how much he loves me and misses me. My question is why then didn't he show it? Wow! something's Up! You don't put that much time into someone and get that type of response. He just stops responding to you?! Just sounds weird.If he was affectionate before and just stops... I think you should confront Him about it! You should at least know where you stand...or if he's Lost interest.. |
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I met someone here several years ago. I've been to visit him a couple times, we talk several times a day. This last visit I made now mind you we haven't seen each other for several years I got off the train no hug or kiss nothing. He says he's not into public displays of affection. I say bs. I stayed for 7 days and still really nothing. But before I came he was saying how much he loved me and couldn't wait to just cuddle and hold me never happened. It's changed everything 6 yrs of the long distance and this. He still says how much he loves me and misses me. My question is why then didn't he show it? Wow! something's Up! You don't put that much time into someone and get that type of response. He just stops responding to you?! Just sounds weird.If he was affectionate before and just stops... I think you should confront Him about it! You should at least know where you stand...or if he's Lost interest.. |
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For all you that don't know we just found out he has to have brain surgery and that's why he wasn't all there. So enough off this
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