How do you know who is telling the truth on a chat line and why is it when I say nobody out of the USA...I get all kinds from across the world? Lol.

You don't but you can limit who can message you to within the USA up to 150 miles if you like

big sigh,,,no way to tell, ya just gotta be real to urself n cautious for a time,,,pretty sad to think like that but true it is, my friend,,so just open up, have a great time, live love laugh, (darn i shoulda [patented that phrase myself)!

i had a guy that ask me to to add him on yahoo

he seem honest enough

he gave me his phone number
but it wasent a oregon number

but any how he was suposely
from oregon where im from
but he lived in another town
that was about 20min away

he said something
that i knew wasent true

for he ask me
how the weather was
i had to laugh
for the weather here was
the same weather
where he suposely
would had been

i block him
from yahoo
and also on mingle2

this has been ages ago

It happens. Meet someone in public during the day and talk there.
We are not all crazy and a lot of people here. It is like dealing with spam. Good luck.