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Topic: SECRET AFFAIR!!!
welsean Joined Sun 12/23/12 Posts: 75	Mon 05/27/13 07:58 AM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ...

aditya5050 Joined Mon 05/06/13 Posts: 3	Mon 05/27/13 08:25 AM
obviously friend,,,,

welsean Joined Sun 12/23/12 Posts: 75	Mon 05/27/13 08:39 AM
even though you love the girl so much...

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 05/27/13 08:44 AM
I have found that the best way to avoid this situation is to not have any friends. It works pretty well.

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Mon 05/27/13 10:04 AM
I've done that & lost both, so it did not work for me...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 05/27/13 10:04 AM
well there is a good chance you will lose both. your friend will not want to continue to be your friend if you have betrayed him with his girl. so you might as well stay with your new girl...unless she goes back to your friend....which seems to happen often as not when I have seen this scenario the cheating guy usually loses both so avoid avoid avoid....keep your crush to yourself...

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Mon 05/27/13 11:21 AM
It was a long time ago for me but I learned never to do that again! It's better to learn from others mistakes than learning from your own...

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Mon 05/27/13 11:31 AM Edited by KiK2me on Mon 05/27/13 11:34 AM
"SECRET" affairs are just WRONG in so many ways ! FUG the dumb sheot Just be up front always Maybe someone gets a little butt hurt for a minute But it is inevitably what is right... And communication is the key BE HONEST ! Be REAL... "SECRET" is all i need to hear to know that SOMEONE just wants to have their cake and eat it too ! JMHO KiK Talk to me ... hehehe THAT is my outlook If a person don't KNOW...

miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 554	Mon 05/27/13 11:40 AM
Cheating is just plain morally wrong, no matter what the circumstances, if you want a new relationship leave your partner first, being cheated on is one of the worse things you can do to someone that trust you.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 05/27/13 11:44 AM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ... Are you saying your in love with your best friends' bf/gf? if so, they must not of been that much of a best friend for you to do that to them.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 05/27/13 12:00 PM
Best friends are for life and I would never want to hurt a true friend in any way.If I found her sweet and sexy I would just put it to rest in my mind,no good will come out of this either way. I had it happen to me before and I never forgave my so called friend!

welsean Joined Sun 12/23/12 Posts: 75	Mon 05/27/13 05:22 PM
It was a long time ago for me but I learned never to do that again! It's better to learn from others mistakes than learning from your own... nice ... :-)

welsean Joined Sun 12/23/12 Posts: 75	Mon 05/27/13 05:29 PM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ... Are you saying your in love with your best friends' bf/gf? if so, they must not of been that much of a best friend for you to do that to them. no im not in that situation... I only want to know their opinions...

welsean Joined Sun 12/23/12 Posts: 75	Mon 05/27/13 05:32 PM
nice all thoughts...

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Mon 05/27/13 05:44 PM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ... The love of my life that is if he loves me back. Its hard to fight for someone if he doesnt fight for me also. If my bestfriend is really my friend he will understand and support me and make a way for my happiness as i am to him.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21482	Mon 05/27/13 05:52 PM
The number one key to friendship is loyalty. If you are disloyal to your friend you are not going to be friends. If your new bf/gf is willing to be disloyal to his/her old bf/gf, her loyalty to you may be questionable.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Mon 05/27/13 07:37 PM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ... The love of my life that is if he loves me back. Its hard to fight for someone if he doesnt fight for me also. If my bestfriend is really my friend he will understand and support me and make a way for my happiness as i am to him. Sounds good winlei shoe me to your friend and well get things started

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Mon 05/27/13 08:14 PM
what if you fell in love with your bestfriend bf/gf.. And you entered a secret relationship with him/ her.. What you will do to make it right? Who will you choose your bestfriend since you were young or your love ?? Choosing your bestfriend you sacrifice and made the right way.. And choosing for your love you fight and follow your heart desire ... The love of my life that is if he loves me back. Its hard to fight for someone if he doesnt fight for me also. If my bestfriend is really my friend he will understand and support me and make a way for my happiness as i am to him. Sounds good winlei shoe me to your friend and well get things started i'm deaf, I CANNOT HEAR YOU(leaning closer) WHAT DID YOU SAY?

jaded72 Joined Tue 12/06/11 Posts: 1456	Mon 05/27/13 08:27 PM
"SECRET" affairs are just WRONG in so many ways ! FUG the dumb sheot Just be up front always Maybe someone gets a little butt hurt for a minute But it is inevitably what is right... And communication is the key BE HONEST ! Be REAL... "SECRET" is all i need to hear to know that SOMEONE just wants to have their cake and eat it too ! JMHO KiK Talk to me ... hehehe THAT is my outlook If a person don't KNOW... I agree with KIK. Secret relationships are recipes for disaster. If things are can gin, get it out in the open.