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have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person? |
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have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person? sorry for tht.. well i had that experience too.. lol |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Mon 06/03/13 01:37 AM
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I love a lot of people I wouldn't marry. I don't have to be compatible or attracted to someone in order to love them for all their individual gifts and attributes. But I do have to have compatibility and attraction to spend the rest of my days with them.  When you say" love them" do you mean in love with them? If you do, you are fovever blowing my mind  And doesn't a woman pretty much just fall IN love & when its ran its coarse , she's most likely to no longer be In love, but this would be most likely the only time she would just love the person, opposed to Being in love? Love as in knowing and carring deeply for one, Second question to all woman please. Both actually. I can love in a lot of different ways. I would never marry my Uncle, but I love him with all my heart. I love my best friend with all my heart and would never marry him either. We are simply not compatible. I've also been romantically "in love" with someone who I knew I would not be compatible enough to spend the rest of my life with. I'm not sure why that would blow your mind. As to the second question. I couldn't say how it is for anyone else, but I can't fall out of love. I'm not someone who "falls" into anything actually. I tend to do things quite purposefully. If there is a reason I should not be in love with someone, I can and will force myself to see reason and walk away from my romantic feelings. But, I don't "fall" out of anything I go into with intent.  So when you concisely chose to be in love with the person or personal, were you concisely aware from the beginning that you would not spend the rest of your life with that person or personal?and I'm not talking about Uncle Buck!  Thanks for trying to answer but I'm still perhaps I've been very naive in the past.  Bad timing maybe?  Its is very clear that you were not talking about the love of family/friendship in your original post "I love a lot of people I wouldn't marry" sorry! are you from the south...I dont think thats your thing & you have an excellent comprehension as this thread is pertaining to one that we were in love with, that we Would not want to be nuptial with. I would say if one does that from the beginning, just for there own selfish needs then thats nasty! one is essentially still shoping for the better deal. Why would one even be faithful, very doutfull they would as there full intention is to move on anyways. Second scenario is what you've described , when your in love and you love them for their individual Qualities and attributes but they must be just missing the mark somewhere so that would put one in a unsatisfied disposition, still shoping for a better deal also. I have been on the other end of simular and also different circumstances and you no somethings not right! You can probe till you blue in the face but a woman will rarely come out with the truth as she seens to always want to keep her back door open, so they are forced to lie, which is not convincing at all as their mood dosent match there words. So for me I just see it as time to move on & i'll always think of them in a funny context from time to time but wll always no that their not werthy of glorifying with a chit Resume' longer than themselves. Yes! most everyone's being in love with someone that there not going to marry, but thats generally do to lost or disrespect, where its probably a very tainted love with one's confidence shaken, leading to a delayed departue time. I have asked you stuff simpily because you've been the one that has said some things thats triped a switch immediately. I'm surprised that no other man would not comment??? I guess it only one to ask a question & how many to screw in a  "Baby eat your chichen slow, what about them little bones"! Ps I dont think you answered me as to what kinda "Hochey" player are you..I guess you probably answered it by not answering it  Just thought of a joke, what does hockey & the English language thats used correctly have in common? Now I just have to think of the punchline ..Answer: they dont have corners.. didn't say it was a great joke.  Peace out |
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blah what a lecture !! pheww
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blah what a lecture !! pheww
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have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person? Yes.. I did have that issue and unfortunately I caved in to her pressure. It was a horrible mistake on both of our parts. Something that I will never repeat again. Not only did it end poorly for us.. but for my daughter and her son as well. |
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have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person? Yes. I have that going on now. I am totally in-love with a loser.... his downside... he doesn't help with bills, he is demanding, possessive, broke, lies, he is a dreamer... I love him to death but would never marry him. I don't even see him in my future. PS he wasn't like this when I met him. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Tue 06/04/13 01:51 AM
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have u ever faced that you feel you love someone strongly.. but u dont want to marry that person? Yes. I have that going on now. I am totally in-love with a loser.... his downside... he doesn't help with bills, he is demanding, possessive, broke, lies, he is a dreamer... I love him to death but would never marry him. I don't even see him in my future. PS he wasn't like this when I met him. jetta jetta jetta..what are we going to do with you my pretty friend? well your very honest! great quality! So let me get this straght, a couple of weeks ago you said you married a man that you didn't love? Now your in love with a man that you wont marry....I'm tired now...what's with the marrage thing? were just young?... Talk latter Jamie 
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Tue 06/04/13 01:19 PM
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I can't know if we're a good match until I really get to know them. It takes time for me to become in love and it also takes time to discover if we'll be a good match. I suppose sometimes the wrong thing happens first. Bad timing maybe? Its is very clear that you were not talking about the love of family/friendship in your original post "I love a lot of people I wouldn't marry" sorry! are you from the south...I dont think thats your thing & you have an excellent comprehension as this thread is pertaining to one that we were in love with, that we Would not want to be nuptial with. I would say if one does that from the beginning, just for there own selfish needs then thats nasty! one is essentially still shoping for the better deal. Why would one even be faithful, very doutfull they would as there full intention is to move on anyways. Second scenario is what you've described , when your in love and you love them for their individual Qualities and attributes but they must be just missing the mark somewhere so that would put one in a unsatisfied disposition, still shoping for a better deal also. I have been on the other end of simular and also different circumstances and you no somethings not right! You can probe till you blue in the face but a woman will rarely come out with the truth as she seens to always want to keep her back door open, so they are forced to lie, which is not convincing at all as their mood dosent match there words. So for me I just see it as time to move on & i'll always think of them in a funny context from time to time but wll always no that their not werthy of glorifying with a chit Resume' longer than themselves. Yes! most everyone's being in love with someone that there not going to marry, but thats generally do to lost or disrespect, where its probably a very tainted love with one's confidence shaken, leading to a delayed departue time. I have asked you stuff simpily because you've been the one that has said some things thats triped a switch immediately. I'm surprised that no other man would not comment??? I guess it only one to ask a question & how many to screw in a "Baby eat your chichen slow, what about them little bones"! Ps I dont think you answered me as to what kinda "Hochey" player are you..I guess you probably answered it by not answering it Just thought of a joke, what does hockey & the English language thats used correctly have in common? Now I just have to think of the punchline ..Answer: they dont have corners.. didn't say it was a great joke. Peace out You're way over thinking my answer Pony. I have a lot of male friends who sometimes get romantic ideas about me. I don't have romantic ideas about them...but love them as valuable friends...some even like family. I would not marry any of them...though only two have proposed. I'm pretty sure they were joking though...since we never even dated. Also, I once dated a man very seriously who I came very close to marrying. I loved him very much but realized I wouldn't be able to marry him because he was so argumentative and irritable and I was not going to spend the rest of my life defending my every thought to someone no matter how much I love them. And then of course there's Andy Garcia. I've been goo goo over that man since the first film I saw him in a film. But I doubt the celebrity wife would suit me well at all. So...if Andy Garcia asked me to marry him...I would have to turn him down. It would hurt like double hockey sticks, but I'd have no choice.  Now, if he's willing to give it all up for love....I'd have to think it over.  If that's what you think of as wanting something better...then you bet I do....and if I'm willing to wait for it, then that's my choice. I'm not hurting anyone by waiting for a husband I can not just love, but respect and get along with more often than not. So, if I can take it...I'll wait another two decades if that's what it takes. No back doors...just a lot of crossword puzzles and patience.  
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