you know what really gets me ..i see some many men complaining about what women have done to them how they did this and did that when they had some part to play in it... why blame others for you failure in realionships... with me i look at what part i played in it but thats just me..i cannot go on blaming other women cuz i have trust issues been burned by women. i dont get these women bashers not all women are like that ... and its not fair to the good women out there to have to pay for somelses bull.. cuz you have issues deal with them and get over it....

It goes both ways Stevil, and thank you for pointing that out. People should understand that both sexes have been burned and this is not an uncommon issue brought up in the forums. Glad you shared

good luck

i hope this works for ya


and it goes the other way as well


lots of somebody done me wrong stories on both planets

There is a big difference between expressing frustration at not being able to find a "good" woman and saying that there are no "good" woman out there. I agree with you though, that whining and complaining generally get you nowhere with the "good" ones. It doesn't exactly scream mental health/ maturity. It does get depressing to see so many sex-centric personal ads though. Personally I think that if your looking you must first determine what your looking for, then once it is found, enter with an open mind and a clean slate. If your not able to enter with a clean slate you are not ready to date again.

Yes I know "your" in my text is supposed to be "you're". I need some sleep.