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Topic: What about the men?
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14601	Tue 05/14/13 04:58 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. I can relate to that. Many men don't want women to speak up and have a mind of their own. Imo

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 05/14/13 05:01 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. I can relate to that. Many men don't want women to speak up and have a mind of their own. Imo This is correct. Some men don't like it when women think differently, or speak out against what they've said. I have no problem with those who disagree, but I am not going to change the way I do things or the way I think just because someone disagrees.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14601	Tue 05/14/13 05:17 PM
I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. I can relate to that. Many men don't want women to speak up and have a mind of their own. Imo This is correct. Some men don't like it when women think differently, or speak out against what they've said. I have no problem with those who disagree, but I am not going to change the way I do things or the way I think just because someone disagrees. I understand, we all have our opinions and outlooks on things. It takes me a while to meet a man, who is very nice and open to a woman's opinions and respect her for them. I meet Older men and most are more set in their ways and thoughts.

Momoiro_Usagi_7 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 1450	Tue 05/14/13 05:31 PM
The base for me will be that physical atraction, then I'm looking for a best friend, I do find this often, but No consistency or longevity Sick of been the guy that does the most in this world for somebody yet their gratitude goes nowhere They are treating you worst that anyone they know! Just a buddie , loyal , loyal, loyal to the bone I agree with you totally best answer I've heard in a while.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 08:47 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. Singmesweet t sleepZzzzzzz {Sing along} q " killing us s ooooftly with your song" See your still making friends I see ..ahaaaaahaa How's tricks? (things)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 05/14/13 08:54 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. Singmesweet t sleepZzzzzzz {Sing along} q " killing us s ooooftly with your song" See your still making friends I see ..ahaaaaahaa How's tricks? (things) What are you rambling about?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 05/14/13 08:57 PM
b(@)(@)bs did you say ? hehehe Hey Kik! good grief ....waht "GRADE" are we in???

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 05/14/13 09:04 PM
Men want to be loved for the size of their hearts, not for the size of their ... ... wallets. These days don't most women have their own wallets? Yeah, but that doesn't stop some of them from being gold diggers. I suppose women deal with that too, but don't think it's as obvious. Men buy fewer shoes you know...so that's one thing we can't judge by a mans feet. there are definitely men out there who are gold diggers. it is not just a female trait and I do get tired of hearing men compalin about this when they are just as likely to marry a woman for HER money shoe fits both feet... singme said something earlier about generalizations - not all men nor all women do the same things. I agree. generalizations seldom help

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 09:05 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 05/14/13 09:13 PM
I see more threads asking what women want...what about you fellas? What do you men honestly look for in a gal? We are already aware of b00bs...btw. ok so no mention of boobs.crap,i have nothin' else to talk about

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 05/14/13 09:15 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me?

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 09:17 PM
Men want to be loved for the size of their hearts, not for the size of their ... ... wallets. These days don't most women have their own wallets? Yeah, but that doesn't stop some of them from being gold diggers. I suppose women deal with that too, but don't think it's as obvious. Men buy fewer shoes you know...so that's one thing we can't judge by a mans feet. there are definitely men out there who are gold diggers. it is not just a female trait and I do get tired of hearing men compalin about this when they are just as likely to marry a woman for HER money shoe fits both feet... singme said something earlier about generalizations - not all men nor all women do the same things. I agree. generalizations seldom help Sure you will see this in both genders, thats a fact! But to say that its just as likely is just ludicrous! At a geuss I would say for every one male there's nine woman.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 09:29 PM
I see more threads asking what women want...what about you fellas? What do you men honestly look for in a gal? We are already aware of b00bs...btw. ok so no mention of boobs.crap,i have nothin' else to talk about If you ever have the misfortunes of been arested & SHE says " anything you SAY can & Will be held against you " B@@BS.....needs to be the last thing you say...unless she goes for it..lol.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 09:54 PM
The base for me will be that physical atraction, then I'm looking for a best friend, I do find this often, but No consistency or longevity Sick of been the guy that does the most in this world for somebody yet their gratitude goes nowhere They are treating you worst that anyone they know! Just a buddie , loyal , loyal, loyal to the bone I agree with you totally best answer I've heard in a while. Well what are you doing latter? responsible manchild seeking appreciative, intentive sexual best friend With boat & motor ..please mess me at mingle 2...please enclose pic of boat n moter! Oh! one more thing, your going to need a good sence of humor or I don't thing were going to be able to hang out. flowers for you beauty

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Tue 05/14/13 10:43 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me? Sorry, I didn't see your post, Well sure it applys to you, you said it, the metaphor just means if its good for you its good for me meaning everybody so we can't have expectations of others that we can't fulfill ourselves. Basically your want to be exepted for your own style opposed to changing your ways to suite others So by saying that, your are acutely sayings that you sooner be diliked as yourself that liked as somebody your not, well me to, the Frank Sinatra way! So if anybody thinks its just a one way street is just a hippocrate! Ps...I think you tend to take somethings literally. Like did you think I was talking about Geese..lol.. No, I think you were wondering if I was refering to a specific "incident"

Unknow Joined Thu 01/05/12 Posts: 241	Wed 05/15/13 08:19 AM
I need my BEER...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/15/13 09:00 AM Edited by singmesweet on Wed 05/15/13 09:13 AM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me? Sorry, I didn't see your post, Well sure it applys to you, you said it, the metaphor just means if its good for you its good for me meaning everybody so we can't have expectations of others that we can't fulfill ourselves. Basically your want to be exepted for your own style opposed to changing your ways to suite others So by saying that, your are acutely sayings that you sooner be diliked as yourself that liked as somebody your not, well me to, the Frank Sinatra way! So if anybody thinks its just a one way street is just a hippocrate! Ps...I think you tend to take somethings literally. Like did you think I was talking about Geese..lol.. No, I think you were wondering if I was refering to a specific "incident" You say an awful lot, but you still don't make sense. What incident are yiu talking about? I didn't realize there had been one. And what does diliked mean?

leevice Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 24	Wed 05/15/13 09:08 AM
I just need 3 things... 1. Good Cook 2. Treat me like I'm the man in the house 3. Be extra sweet in bed

HUST91 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 29	Wed 05/15/13 11:13 AM
I'd like a girl with a similarly crappy sense of humor, an interest in roleplaying, movies, fantasy, science fiction, games, or at least a willingness to learn. Appearance is obviously a plus, but it's really far secondary to those two first points and I'm a strong believer in falling in love with someone's personality (have the internetz to thank for that one - the only thing you can flaunt here is your words).

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Wed 05/15/13 12:14 PM
we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract. I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me? Sorry, I didn't see your post, Well sure it applys to you, you said it, the metaphor just means if its good for you its good for me meaning everybody so we can't have expectations of others that we can't fulfill ourselves. Basically your want to be exepted for your own style opposed to changing your ways to suite others So by saying that, your are acutely sayings that you sooner be diliked as yourself that liked as somebody your not, well me to, the Frank Sinatra way! So if anybody thinks its just a one way street is just a hippocrate! Ps...I think you tend to take somethings literally. Like did you think I was talking about Geese..lol.. No, I think you were wondering if I was refering to a specific "incident" You say an awful lot, but you still don't make sense. What incident are yiu talking about? I didn't realize there had been one. And what does diliked mean? I was comparing your preference to have somebody " respectively disagree" opposed to "changing your ways" to you giving me a hard time about spelling. So no there wasn't a "specific incident" there wasn't an incident just a lack of a better word. The guote goes a follows; "Its better to be disliked as yourself than liked as somebody your not" Thats how I am & it sounded like your very true to yourself aswell The spelling thing is a Hot Button with me & its bellow the belt! Iam not saying, don't ask or dont correct somthing, i'm saying dont try figure out why or theses no excuse.