so rate me maybe?

You've got a pretty good profile. I'm sure most of the people you find, at first, in your area have old, neglected accounts. Keep looking.

Also, feel free to nudge and send messages, since they're free. If they set up their accounts accordingly, they'll get email notices when you nudge and message them, and may come around to see what you sent them. Also, be patient. I find many women may go away for several weeks or months, but then come back for a short time, and may respond.

I got one response 3 months after sending a nudge. Although, I must admit, most of the attention I get are from women pretty far away. Your mileage may vary.

Good luck!