It, seems like I having looking for a friend, partner forever.. I cannot understand why it is taking so long for me to find someone.. am, I doing something wrong? Or, is because men are so damn picky? I, am running out of patience here.. any advice, or ideas here.

I See this is your first post so i say give it time. There is also a forum for your state at the bottom of the page. Also post in the forums more so peope get to know you.

It is becoz youre looking in the wrong places

Depend on where your looking

Well.. I took a shower and I use deodorant ... hmmm

Good reply Kandy! That was cute!

Welcome to Mingle2 everyone and like pkh said, don't be shy, join in the forums for good discussions and fun games.

I take a shower every day and use nice smelly stuff too..haha...
But lets be honest I have just joined this site and have messaged a few potential women that seem to be what I am looking for but no replies..
I am not the best looking guy out their but am honest loving and respectful to women.....I think you are right women seem to be too fussy with looks etc.... Just message a few guys and chat to them...
We want conversation too you know...
Good luck with your search and if you want to chat some time give me a shout when you see me on-line...
Regards Nick.

It takes me a long time to find posts I made replies to in the community, don't understand how they get pushed to the last page instead of the first page of 164 comments. Also chat is lots of guys from India... Am I too old to figure this out?

I think it's my personality... I guy just tried to drag me off to yahoo and I said sorry sonny... we have about 50 years to catch up on first and chased him off with my cane in hand... shaking it at him.

Maybe trying to hard, going to fast? Maybe slow down, look for "friends" first. I think we BUILD relationships like a building. Find your solid footing for your foundation, build with QUALITY material & precision.

Think about it.

Opinion Old Sage

Most times expectations are too high. Looks seem very important on this site and others as well.

Sometimes you have to look outside the box. The person you seek my not live in your area. I find most only look in their home town. I had one guy chew me out for saying hello and posting a nice comment. He was a nice looking dude with a great picture and profile... can't catch bees with vinegar I always say

I'm new to the conversation but I do agree with that whole heartedly.

Nice guys?

Where? I think they are extinct!

no i think you will find there a few of us left

Well to many people have an idea instilled in their minds what Hollywood projects which you will never find and most don't even realize it , be your self read the book if it doesn't look like its eye catching u automatically threw it away which we are conditioned to it by society , I'm just saying ;-)

Women tend to judge a book before it's cover they want a ken doll so I have seen. Through the years and women hate it when I figure them out well the truth hurts .Reason why good men hard to get the women keep making the mistake finding the wrong men they wonder why there hurt all the time then they blame it on all men. Nice guys finish last way always is so my advice look in to the guys heart and soul put the looks on the back burner you will see what your missing

Please be gracious enough to limit your comments to "some women" as opposed to women in general. Not all of us judge the book (men) by its cover...some of us actually read the book. That's the best part. So, in respect for those of us who don't think you have to look like a movie star, please include the word "some" before the word "woman" or "women". Best of luck in your search.

Hi Been on here looking for a lady for Hubby and me to have some fun with..We from buffalo and its so hard to find a decent person on sites like this..So trying this site and hope to find a friend and enjoy life abit with us...

Wow so touchy hope I didn't hit a nerve .Kind of hard to type on a smart. Phone as regards to what I seen so far am not holding this against all women on pof other sites the women don't want to know a man unless they meet there standards I questioned these women said how would they like it man would say your *** to big not enough make up or wait you don't have big breast etc.,That's all I seen what if the guy is disabled or had medical issues ?lord I seen that to they judge and frankly there pretty rude. So before you get offensive over what I say rememberto put your self in a man shoes and see the other side .Not making a big issues but a person has the right to say his or own opinions what they seen on dating sited .Hell I got remarks on my long hair so way I see it it's either they ascept it or not am bot changing for no one .Good luck my friend.