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Topic: How long do you wait?
Jtevans's photo
Sat 04/27/13 07:08 PM



If you meet someone and they give you their number? How long do you wait until you call?



i'm all up in it on the first date!





wait,never mind,you meant how long do you wait to call


laugh devil


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Lookingup1246's photo
Sat 04/27/13 07:25 PM
I dont call until the person calls me a few times.
I would love to be assertive, because i dont have a problem with it, but i like to see some interest first.

1Cynderella's photo
Mon 04/29/13 04:52 PM

I hate talking on the telephone so it is usually a long dang time. lol Unless of course it is Mikey and he has such a great voice I would talk to him. lol
I'm with you here. I talk on the phone all day because I have to...outside of work I want to throw the thing in the commode. laugh

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Mon 04/29/13 07:06 PM


I hate talking on the telephone so it is usually a long dang time. lol Unless of course it is Mikey and he has such a great voice I would talk to him. lol
I'm with you here. I talk on the phone all day because I have to...outside of work I want to throw the thing in the commode. laugh


hear hear - I hear ya there!

actually trying to get me on the phone is next to impossible. he's better to email me and schedule a time to call so I will pick up

I never check my msgs either cuz I simply don;t care and don't wanna be on the phone outside work...

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Mon 04/29/13 08:55 PM
For those women who won't call men, do you email him if he gives you his email address? Do you text him if he gives you his number?

Traumer's photo
Tue 04/30/13 04:08 PM

My question is this...why is there a waiting period? Is it so you won't look desperate or something? My point is do you really think that person is going to sit around and wait for you to call? If they get a chance to go out with someone else, they won't be sitting home waiting for your call!
I myself, would never call a man. IF they can not call me...then we would never talk again. I am really strange about giving out my phone number too. I had a stalker for over 2 years and it was terrifying so not to many people have my number. If a strange guy came up and asked me for number, I probably would not give it to them. If he wanted to give me his...I might call him and block my number BUT I don't even know if I would do that!!
My point is....STOP PUTTING A TIME LIMIT ON WHEN YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO CALL SOMEONE, JUST CALL THEM AND LET THEM KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED! STOP PLAYING GAMES!!!



Bravo!

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Wed 05/01/13 04:31 AM

If you meet someone and they give you their number? How long do you wait until you call?

I am given the number for a reason, right? So ASAP

Lookingup1246's photo
Thu 05/02/13 04:24 PM

For those women who won't call men, do you email him if he gives you his email address? Do you text him if he gives you his number?

Lookingup1246's photo
Thu 05/02/13 04:27 PM
Absolutely! I find i can avoid questions like: where do youblive aka what part of town and more personal info that I wouldn't give out right away easier.

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Thu 05/02/13 06:42 PM


Good answer! What's up with the games folks? I believe (could be wrong) that this type of thing was something for high school. OP, you mean adults play this stuff too?

See this goes back (for me) to a lot of these threads about dating games that I see as a little on the imature side of things. I read this stuff and have to check my date of birth again to see if I have missed something by 30 years or so. If someone is 20ish I can see why these types of things are still on their minds but do people over their teens really operate this way?


Well said {{{{Dada}}}} and I'm back here, AGAIN! LOL
I waited another year for a man to call me but didn't happen - am I 20ish? I think his mind is :(

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Thu 05/02/13 07:40 PM

For those women who won't call men, do you email him if he gives you his email address? Do you text him if he gives you his number?


sometimes. and I will call sometimes. alot depends on the situation. I called a man from here once because he lost his internet service and had emailed me with some questions. I had his # from a previous conversation and called to leave him mine.

so really it depends on how well I know him, whether we've been talking, how realistic it is for us to share pers. info and how interested I am...and such

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