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Topic: What would you do?
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Wed 04/24/13 08:33 AM
once the laundry and cleaning are done, the bills already paid, adn the contract is drawn up that you will continue to do at least 50% .... or more.

then she might say yes...

actually, interesting , I have read an article recently that some women eschew co-habitation for exactly this issue. it certainly is a major cinsideration for me, anyway

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Wed 04/24/13 10:42 AM

A friend asked me the other day "When is it the right time to ask your girlfriend (or boyfriend) to move in with you (or you with them)? My answer was "Whenever you trick them into saying I do". laugh So....fellow Minglers....what would you say?


I move in, only after the marriage takes place.:wink:

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Wed 04/24/13 03:01 PM


Where's that super bowl party going to be?shades


My house of course. :banana: But you don't like the girls hangin' round...so....waving

rofl rofl

Don't get me wrong now, I believe in the ability to agree to disagree. Simply because I disagree with something. Doesn't mean I hold any anger or dislike toward anyone. That would be kind of immature wouldn't it?

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Wed 04/24/13 03:08 PM


A friend asked me the other day "When is it the right time to ask your girlfriend (or boyfriend) to move in with you (or you with them)? My answer was "Whenever you trick them into saying I do". laugh So....fellow Minglers....what would you say?


I move in, only after the marriage takes place.:wink:
:thumbsup:

chocpouss's photo
Thu 04/25/13 02:41 PM

i think the closer to laundry day, the better...



LOL

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Thu 04/25/13 03:13 PM



Where's that super bowl party going to be?shades


My house of course. :banana: But you don't like the girls hangin' round...so....waving

rofl rofl

Don't get me wrong now, I believe in the ability to agree to disagree. Simply because I disagree with something. Doesn't mean I hold any anger or dislike toward anyone. That would be kind of immature wouldn't it?
Okay then, I guess you can come if I have one next year.

I started out teasing Jacktrades for saying wait until after super bowl...c'est las grave? ...Frank in Vancouver?:laughing:

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Sat 04/27/13 02:35 PM

A friend asked me the other day "When is it the right time to ask your girlfriend (or boyfriend) to move in with you (or you with them)? My answer was "Whenever you trick them into saying I do". laugh So....fellow Minglers....what would you say?


.
I say as soon as you say I do , "they don't"

Don't no, but in British Columbia we have a 6 month common law possible 3 now

So all assets would be split if things didn't workout


I guess u could have a legal bindings contract between to parties, like a prenuptial


I personally wouldn't trust say , bogus rent receipts which may be overturned in a court of law

So it would come down to geographics and what they can bring to the party in my case.

How romantic! I know,

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Sat 04/27/13 03:34 PM
Well having done the "living together" thing and finding it to be a HUGE mistake; never seen it be a total win for anyone else I know either; I would agree to the wait until you have figured out you want to and actually DONE the "I DO". Preferably with a prenup. I sure would NEVER leave my future up to the whim of a luck of the draw divorce judge. Or the fair play sense of the family/employer/business partners that invariably have to show their behinds when marriages end be it divorce or death.

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Sat 04/27/13 04:32 PM


After the Super Bowl.


*hits record* "Note to self...Strike Jacktrades from Super Bowl party list....doesn't want your sexy, drunken friends in the way...you know, the ones who get so bored during the game, they are up for almost anything by the end of the night. slaphead



I'll be frank & ernest can I come! I'm a much bigger fan of bored sexy drunken gals dressed in yoga pants

& boots than football (sorry guys) heck, i'll be Billy Scotty Jonny, Ricky i'll be who ever you all want

Me to be.

Ps: Cyn
After reading your comment, the one about " thats a tacky thing to say and voice here, I hope she's not

Watching this" well, i didn't catch it right away but for some reason you made the assumption that it was

Someone I'm interested in or seeing now,...just wanted to clear the air.....she's not real! YA know,

besides, she popped the other night,


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