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i'm just a man whore
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i'm just a man whore yes we all know u are shameless 
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When I was a boy, I knew a very unremarkable man. Nothing special about him. He was no Brad Pitt. However every time I saw him. He was with a different girl. Some were quite attractive. So I asked him, What's your secret? How do you always have a different pretty girl? He replied, "Well boy the secret is this, If you speak to 5 girls. At worst 1 of them will agree to go out with you. If you speak to 20 girls at worst 5 will go out with you. Now if you speak to 50 girls, At worst 20 will go out with you. So is there anything wrong with dating many people till you find what you want? Just a thought i'd like to entertain? See this is where my logic falls short... on on hand I kind of want to find the perfect one for me.. which implies that I should go through several and choose from those... (I have social anxiety and kind of shy.... though perfectly possible to do if I pull myself from my computer ) On the other hand very old fashioned as far as limiting the amount of sex partners and being faithful to one.. and of the mentality to not have as many sex partners as I possible can ( society promotes this and I am slightly against it .. but whatever, she can be herself that's cool ) and likely to go for the most likely next one and not bother to try everything before settling If you're dating several people at once, you're not really going to get to know them all very well. You'll get to know them all a little bit. |
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When I was a boy, I knew a very unremarkable man. Nothing special about him. He was no Brad Pitt. However every time I saw him. He was with a different girl. Some were quite attractive. So I asked him, What's your secret? How do you always have a different pretty girl? He replied, "Well boy the secret is this, If you speak to 5 girls. At worst 1 of them will agree to go out with you. If you speak to 20 girls at worst 5 will go out with you. Now if you speak to 50 girls, At worst 20 will go out with you. So is there anything wrong with dating many people till you find what you want? Just a thought i'd like to entertain? depends upon personal morals if 'dating' means spendng platonic time with no promise or mention or 'love' or commitment,, than Id say go for it,, personally if 'dating' involves sex, or the impression that there is love or commitment,, than Id say have the integrity to be honest and not waste peoples time,, let them know upfront that the dating is not exclusive or that they are merely friends,,,, |
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As long as you're honest upfront about dating several women, I don't see a problem with it. I agree with this. Always be honest. I don't know that I could handle dating too many though, I feel like I would lose track and lose the attentiveness that a guy would deserve! How do you know what/who you like until you have the opportunity to check things out? My issue would be with time- there are only so many hours in a day! although it has no bearing on how I feel about dating, I always thought this was one of the most dishonest cliches out there created to desensitize people into having multiple 'casual' relationships throughout life I didnt have to taste cake to know I like ice cream,,lol I do get it in terms of not knowing if you DONT LIKE something unless you try it but I never got how dating multiple people made it any more or less clear that you liked who you liked,,,,, |
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As long as you're honest upfront about dating several women, I don't see a problem with it. I agree with this. Always be honest. I don't know that I could handle dating too many though, I feel like I would lose track and lose the attentiveness that a guy would deserve! How do you know what/who you like until you have the opportunity to check things out? My issue would be with time- there are only so many hours in a day! although it has no bearing on how I feel about dating, I always thought this was one of the most dishonest cliches out there created to desensitize people into having multiple 'casual' relationships throughout life I didnt have to taste cake to know I like ice cream,,lol I do get it in terms of not knowing if you DONT LIKE something unless you try it but I never got how dating multiple people made it any more or less clear that you liked who you liked,,,,, I tend to agree with this because I have kinda done it both methods. I got tired of meeting a lot of random people because it WAS wasting my time. Most of them expected sex, presumably the fact that we met online made that a "given" somehow...ummmm....no so I don't do the 2-3 emails and meet thing any more... |
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Some women are more memorable than others  I have had several dates from online men and I remember every one, most were real nice. 
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As long as you're honest upfront about dating several women, I don't see a problem with it. I agree with this. Always be honest. I don't know that I could handle dating too many though, I feel like I would lose track and lose the attentiveness that a guy would deserve! How do you know what/who you like until you have the opportunity to check things out? My issue would be with time- there are only so many hours in a day! although it has no bearing on how I feel about dating, I always thought this was one of the most dishonest cliches out there created to desensitize people into having multiple 'casual' relationships throughout life I didnt have to taste cake to know I like ice cream,,lol I do get it in terms of not knowing if you DONT LIKE something unless you try it but I never got how dating multiple people made it any more or less clear that you liked who you liked,,,,, I tend to agree with this because I have kinda done it both methods. I got tired of meeting a lot of random people because it WAS wasting my time. Most of them expected sex, presumably the fact that we met online made that a "given" somehow...ummmm....no so I don't do the 2-3 emails and meet thing any more... I feel the opposite entirely, Wasting time to me, Is talking to someone iv'e never seen for extended periods of time. Too many catfish for that. |
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