Topic: I Think Secretly All Women Do It...
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Sun 04/21/13 07:42 PM
nope totally do not date jerks

there are very few on here I'd date because I also do not date men who have negativity toward women or make generalized negative statements about women

it shows that to you we aren't really people

so no.

tho I have dated a jerk before - never again

other than the one I am thinking of most of the guys who I have been involved with are pretty decent...not perfect mind you. but then neither am I

just what we need........... another "nice guy" threadgrumble

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Sun 04/21/13 07:42 PM

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^ win.


this the perfect comment for u printsie:tongue:

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 04/21/13 07:47 PM
If they do it secretly doesn't kind of preclude you knowing what it is?

And no we don't secretly want a jerk or a guy who is such a narcisist that he self lables as a "nice' guy but is a jerk or often just a wimp; also an undesireable.

ViaMusica's photo
Sun 04/21/13 07:50 PM
Edited by ViaMusica on Sun 04/21/13 07:50 PM
I've dated jerks, and it's really no picnic. I certainly didn't choose them knowing that's what they were.

I'm only interested in dating genuinely caring guys who respect women and who don't feel threatened when a woman is intelligent and knows what she wants and speaks her mind. Guys who want a woman to be their equal partner.

Jerks can go jerk themselves. It's the one thing they're good at. laugh

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 04/21/13 08:58 PM

I've dated jerks, and it's really no picnic. I certainly didn't choose them knowing that's what they were.


Are you implying that women don't turn men into jerks, but that certain men are jerks before women meet them?

ViaMusica's photo
Sun 04/21/13 09:04 PM


I've dated jerks, and it's really no picnic. I certainly didn't choose them knowing that's what they were.


Are you implying that women don't turn men into jerks, but that certain men are jerks before women meet them?

Yep. And in other news, water is wet. Film at eleven. laugh

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Mon 04/22/13 12:10 PM



I've dated jerks, and it's really no picnic. I certainly didn't choose them knowing that's what they were.


Are you implying that women don't turn men into jerks, but that certain men are jerks before women meet them?

Yep. And in other news, water is wet. Film at eleven. laugh



:laughing:

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Tue 04/23/13 12:11 AM
I think we need to go back to the fart thing. ?

krupa's photo
Fri 04/26/13 03:42 AM
....thanks Deep....pretty subtle and smoothe......

Anyhoo....

Nice guy or jerk got zero to do with chicks digging you or not digging you.

It has nothing to do with the chicks.

The common denominator of successfully scoring some tail is this.....

You.

If you are or ain't scoring...it is because of you.

Blaming women don't fly....they cant all be wrong.

(Not saying "you " directly...just a general statement.....guys tend to blame women when they got no woman)

butterflybabe30's photo
Fri 04/26/13 05:01 AM
ohh dear..........I don't think there are any jerks out there at all.....what one woman would consider a jerk another woman is singing his praises so its basically finding whose right for you, if you have found a "jerk" he isn't yours so put him back lol lol lol

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Fri 04/26/13 05:12 AM

I dont know,,, Id say fart,,

but even that isnt something that ALL women do in secret,,,lol

the 'all' in the statement is makign it hard for me to come up with much


Now can't get the image of you farting out of my mind. Is it a peep or a bomblast?

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Fri 04/26/13 08:09 AM


I've dated jerks, and it's really no picnic. I certainly didn't choose them knowing that's what they were.


Are you implying that women don't turn men into jerks, but that certain men are jerks before women meet them?


What a silly question. Of course women don't turn men into jerks.

Traumer's photo
Fri 04/26/13 08:17 AM
Let's try this: ALL women secretly do admit to themselves that they are NOT from Venus and that all men are NOT from Mars, but that ALL of us are from Earth and the real problem is that not all women can deal with that; it's a tacit but shocking Truth and not some modern and convenient 'Pop Psych' placebo that lets them escape the stark reality
of life. The more Madison Avenue tells you that were are irreparably 'different' and misunderstood, the more assume it is true and both are then placed into a needless and negative conflict where none should rationally exist.
My question has always been why does Madison Ave. magazines do this which perpetuates a conflict between males and females; is it simply a tool for profits from the sale of their 'socially significant' influence or is there really an agenda to so change and alter society through some bizarre form of behavior modification that ultimately destabilizes all relationships between the sexes. If one is familiar at all with the history of all the Madison Ave. publications beginning around 1914 to now, it is and has been constant abuse and denigration of both sexes going from one extreme to the other; 'Goddess to whore;
'Adonis' to wimp and all shades in between. Look back on the history of how women have been used and misused in ads and men also with tons of articles that are more denigrating than praise for all our respective differences. Anyone who has worked in the magazine advertising knows how ads depict males and females in a state of conflict, from mistrust; distrust to outright physical abuse always using sex as the luring bate to look and read their latest 'provocative topics' which just further any conflict. Photos of airbrushed models and products are loaded with subliminal images depicting all manner of sexual sadism and death and every four letter word you can imagine. Art directors are told what must be inserted as are the photo dept.'s Those words and images are not meant to produce healthy relationships with the opposite sex ; they are meant to only further produce total chaos and disparaging images/ ideas of all of us to each of us including how we see ourselves filled with 'inadequacies' and self guilt as we fail in repeated relationships in which we seek solace with the miserable excuse that 'nobody understands me'.....The advertising and publishing world really opened my eyes and the view was sickening and totally perverse.
Ok, that is what and how I see about things done in 'secret'.

BettyB's photo
Fri 04/26/13 08:21 AM
Question? Why are these women want jerks threads always started by men?

If that were true we would all be dating as there is no shortage of jerks.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Fri 04/26/13 08:28 AM

Question? Why are these women want jerks threads always started by men?

If that were true we would all be dating as there is no shortage of jerks.


laugh

krupa's photo
Fri 04/26/13 09:30 AM


Question? Why are these women want jerks threads always started by men?

If that were true we would all be dating as there is no shortage of jerks.


laugh


Same reason as guys with little peckers always always do the "Does size matter? " threads...

The ones with little penises will always be the only ones who worry about it.


Most guys are simple and only pimps in their own mind.

BettyB's photo
Fri 04/26/13 09:42 AM



Question? Why are these women want jerks threads always started by men?

If that were true we would all be dating as there is no shortage of jerks.


laugh


Same reason as guys with little peckers always always do the "Does size matter? " threads...

The ones with little penises will always be the only ones who worry about it.


Most guys are simple and only pimps in their own mind.


:thumbsup: That sounds about right .

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Fri 04/26/13 10:16 AM

Let's try this: ALL women secretly do admit to themselves that they are NOT from Venus and that all men are NOT from Mars, but that ALL of us are from Earth and the real problem is that not all women can deal with that; it's a tacit but shocking Truth and not some modern and convenient 'Pop Psych' placebo that lets them escape the stark reality
of life. The more Madison Avenue tells you that were are irreparably 'different' and misunderstood, the more assume it is true and both are then placed into a needless and negative conflict where none should rationally exist.
My question has always been why does Madison Ave. magazines do this which perpetuates a conflict between males and females; is it simply a tool for profits from the sale of their 'socially significant' influence or is there really an agenda to so change and alter society through some bizarre form of behavior modification that ultimately destabilizes all relationships between the sexes. If one is familiar at all with the history of all the Madison Ave. publications beginning around 1914 to now, it is and has been constant abuse and denigration of both sexes going from one extreme to the other; 'Goddess to whore;
'Adonis' to wimp and all shades in between. Look back on the history of how women have been used and misused in ads and men also with tons of articles that are more denigrating than praise for all our respective differences. Anyone who has worked in the magazine advertising knows how ads depict males and females in a state of conflict, from mistrust; distrust to outright physical abuse always using sex as the luring bate to look and read their latest 'provocative topics' which just further any conflict. Photos of airbrushed models and products are loaded with subliminal images depicting all manner of sexual sadism and death and every four letter word you can imagine. Art directors are told what must be inserted as are the photo dept.'s Those words and images are not meant to produce healthy relationships with the opposite sex ; they are meant to only further produce total chaos and disparaging images/ ideas of all of us to each of us including how we see ourselves filled with 'inadequacies' and self guilt as we fail in repeated relationships in which we seek solace with the miserable excuse that 'nobody understands me'.....The advertising and publishing world really opened my eyes and the view was sickening and totally perverse.
Ok, that is what and how I see about things done in 'secret'.
Single women do more fashion shopping and wear more perfume. It's in their best interest to keep ladies single.
They know how to manipulate the masses to feed on what their sponsors are selling and depend on their magazine for advise.

It's like in the sex advice columns in those magazines...I don't think men really like it when you do that. If you do...you will be single again very shortly....and need new shoes.laugh

Traumer's photo
Fri 04/26/13 01:17 PM


Let's try this: ALL women secretly do admit to themselves that they are NOT from Venus and that all men are NOT from Mars, but that ALL of us are from Earth and the real problem is that not all women can deal with that; it's a tacit but shocking Truth and not some modern and convenient 'Pop Psych' placebo that lets them escape the stark reality
of life. The more Madison Avenue tells you that were are irreparably 'different' and misunderstood, the more assume it is true and both are then placed into a needless and negative conflict where none should rationally exist.
My question has always been why does Madison Ave. magazines do this which perpetuates a conflict between males and females; is it simply a tool for profits from the sale of their 'socially significant' influence or is there really an agenda to so change and alter society through some bizarre form of behavior modification that ultimately destabilizes all relationships between the sexes. If one is familiar at all with the history of all the Madison Ave. publications beginning around 1914 to now, it is and has been constant abuse and denigration of both sexes going from one extreme to the other; 'Goddess to whore;
'Adonis' to wimp and all shades in between. Look back on the history of how women have been used and misused in ads and men also with tons of articles that are more denigrating than praise for all our respective differences. Anyone who has worked in the magazine advertising knows how ads depict males and females in a state of conflict, from mistrust; distrust to outright physical abuse always using sex as the luring bate to look and read their latest 'provocative topics' which just further any conflict. Photos of airbrushed models and products are loaded with subliminal images depicting all manner of sexual sadism and death and every four letter word you can imagine. Art directors are told what must be inserted as are the photo dept.'s Those words and images are not meant to produce healthy relationships with the opposite sex ; they are meant to only further produce total chaos and disparaging images/ ideas of all of us to each of us including how we see ourselves filled with 'inadequacies' and self guilt as we fail in repeated relationships in which we seek solace with the miserable excuse that 'nobody understands me'.....The advertising and publishing world really opened my eyes and the view was sickening and totally perverse.
Ok, that is what and how I see about things done in 'secret'.
Single women do more fashion shopping and wear more perfume. It's in their best interest to keep ladies single.
They know how to manipulate the masses to feed on what their sponsors are selling and depend on their magazine for advise.

It's like in the sex advice columns in those magazines...I don't think men really like it when you do that. If you do...you will be single again very shortly....and need new shoes.laugh


Single women aren't the only targets for the various forms of vilification that magazines have; many are for the ones euphemistically labeled as 'home makers',ie. married/ divorced with children. Those range from the Cosmo to Red book, using overt and cleverly disguised articles that only promote distrust to outright hostility against males while at the same time suggesting how lacking they all are in sexual techniques and what they must do to correct this 'puritanical vestige' that is oh, so 'out of date'.
Look at all the negative images of sex and death painted into ice cubes for all liquor ads it is always males torturing females or killing them. (Ice cubes can't be photographed, so an artist has to paint and draw them , then insert all the various images and symbols; even on crackers and margarine...there is no end to this just as there are no laws in North America against this insertion of 'subliminal images'. Many in Europe are now forbidden to use these subliminal 'persuasive techniques' to sell products of the sponsors of these magazines.
One early women's magazine that spoke out of the permeating negative images of women and all females in general by a continuing marginalization of women was Spare Rib, from England, seeking 'liberation for women' in 1972. Yet it still continues; marginalization by demeaning, insulting and depraved sexual imagery of women from the old style 'Police Gazette and 'girlie' type of mags for males with an extremely limited intelligence. For those with a bit more, they have the 'playboy' types with emphasis on the term 'boy' as opposed to man, but all at a reading level equal to 4th grade, just like 95% of newspapers...Ever get the feeling that this so called 'war of the sexes' was started by and maintained by Madison Avenue and Hollywood ? Everyone is more preoccupied with 'getting a piece' instead of making peace with each other...both hedonistic and combative for the continuing assault on all of society.

TBRich's photo
Fri 04/26/13 01:45 PM

I think we need to go back to the fart thing. ?


I concur. I can't get that scene from Hall Pass out of my head.