Topic: How can you tell when your friend is really into yo ?
mrsofthearted's photo
Mon 04/15/13 05:41 AM
Been wondering how you can tell if your friend is really into you or not..

no photo
Mon 04/15/13 06:14 AM
Huhm,am as ''blind as a bat'' when it comes to such,so,friend better come out say it,otherwise,i'd not know!!

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 04/15/13 01:56 PM
Well, it could be a gun in his pocket I suppose.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/16/13 01:27 PM
If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship. :tongue: laugh

1Cynderella's photo
Tue 04/16/13 01:50 PM

If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship. :tongue: laugh
*hits record on cell..."note to self...purchase trenchcoat"* :wink:

1Cynderella's photo
Tue 04/16/13 01:54 PM
I'm no help here. I'm told a good friend carried a torch for me for 10 years and I never picked up a clue. ohwell

RoamingOrator's photo
Tue 04/16/13 02:12 PM
For you ladies, this is easy:

If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you.

:thumbsup:

For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years:

She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. slaphead

1Cynderella's photo
Tue 04/16/13 02:35 PM

For you ladies, this is easy:

If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you.

:thumbsup:


Roaming, from my experience, other than picking up the check, that describes a good friend. flowerforyou



For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years:

She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. slaphead


:laughing:

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Tue 04/16/13 02:43 PM
She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot.


rofl

HAHAHAHAHA !

topherj37's photo
Tue 04/16/13 03:31 PM
I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known.

ViaMusica's photo
Tue 04/16/13 05:32 PM
Edited by ViaMusica on Tue 04/16/13 05:33 PM

I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known.

I've had instances where the guy pretty much had to do the same thing with me because I wasn't reading his signals right. I have male friends, so I don't always take the fact that a guy is spending time with me to mean he's actually interested interested... and then I'll be surprised to find out he is. Or there'll be someone I think is, and then it turns out he isn't, at least not that way. Soooo confusing (and embarrassing)! So I've learned to avoid assuming anything...

megannm's photo
Tue 04/16/13 06:07 PM
I was exactly the same way. My supervisor at the time (my age) and I were good friends and I didn't know he liked me for the months we worked together. I was completely oblivious buy everyone else knew. Of course I didn't believe anyone when they said he liked me, but we would always hang out after work at quik trip and talk. Eventually he asked me to the movies and he asked me out about a month after

topherj37's photo
Tue 04/16/13 06:07 PM


I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this. My last two girlfriends literally had to sit me down and tell me point blank that they liked me. Otherwise I would never have known.

I've had instances where the guy pretty much had to do the same thing with me because I wasn't reading his signals right. I have male friends, so I don't always take the fact that a guy is spending time with me to mean he's actually interested interested... and then I'll be surprised to find out he is. Or there'll be someone I think is, and then it turns out he isn't, at least not that way. Soooo confusing (and embarrassing)! So I've learned to avoid assuming anything...


That's what taught me not to assume anything. I couldn't even estimate the number of times I misread someone's intentions.

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Tue 04/16/13 06:45 PM

If they show up at your house wearing nothing but a trenchcoat and holding a six pack of beer in their hands......ummmm....they may want more than friendship. :tongue: laugh


a shopping trip to Macy's?flowerforyou

nanaamoako's photo
Wed 04/17/13 04:33 PM
is it that eazy? we shudnt foget that there are prtenders who can prtend to giv a **** about u whiles they dnt

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 04/17/13 04:49 PM
and to think I always thought it was when they always wanted to tie you up with duct tape.

jaded72's photo
Sun 04/21/13 05:31 AM


I'm pretty clueless, too, so it has to be a really obvious sign- When they kiss you?!?

NotMissTaken's photo
Sun 04/21/13 03:26 PM

For you ladies, this is easy:

If he's hanging around, even though you give him no reason to, he's into you. If he listens to your problems, but doesn't know a thing about fashion, he's into you. If he picks up the check, and you're not sleeping with him, he's into you.

:thumbsup:

For us men, well it's a little more complicated, but I think I've finally figured it out after all my years:

She's not into you, but she thinks your friend is kind of hot. slaphead


Hahaha. It's kind of true. us women usually keep looking when we aren't sure our guy friend is also into us.

Guys, girls are very complicated, so read between the lines, we usually say things that meant the opposite like "go away" when it actually meant "just insist to stay, and I'll keep you." I should know.