I am one of those that thinks that cheating would make the person doing it feel horribly guilty. I think that is why I have not done that to anyone. I also think that if you are willing to cheat on someone you do not love them anymore, at least not in the way you should. Love is trust and respect among other things and if you are willing to cheat, you are breaking those elements. I definitely believe that one should break up with someone if they are even considering cheating.

i wish more people had your attitude... would make a better world

So he/she cheats,and you say I'll show you,and screw the first willing Stranger!
Must be doing wonders for one's Self-Esteem!

Thank you

Wow ... where to begin with that ...


If you wanted out of your relationships, why didn't you just get out? It sounds to me like you just wanted to inflict the most amount of pain possible...

My sense is that you just weren't getting what you wanted in your relationship and you were hurt by his accusations. As an individual you have choices always! You could have explained to your partner that the behaviour would not be tolerated ... you could have left if he wasn't stepping up to the plate to provide what you required ... cheating on a guy - especially with his friend is the ultimate in disrespect to him. And if I have learned anything about men from facilitating hundreds of men and women over the years, it is that once they feel disrespected, their interest in you plummets. Tell me I'm wrong guys!

If you just wanted to sleep with the other guy because it was honoring of you, you wouldn't feel a need to brag about it and you would have handled it in a way that was not a dishonoring of the relationship you were in.

I am not in judgment of you at all OP ... this is just my opinion.


As for the question .. no, I have never had revenge sex. Sweet and sensual sex ...yes! Down and dirty sex ... absolutely! Revenge sex? Never!