I wat to go some where to hang out or go dancing i hate to be cooped up and doin nothin im an active female

then might I suggest pullin up your big girl panties and gettin yer butt out there.. call a friend, head out on your own.. it's not as hard as it may sound.. I've done it TONS of times.. and ended up having not only a BLAST but LOTS of adventures too.. mostly fun ones mind you

figure out what you wanna do and go for it.. don't wait for someone else to give you your life.. just live it

Get out and go dancing, then. Wha?t's stopping you

Sing me Sweet and Sleepy Althea eau Back home...

Shame on you guys!!
It's her first post so what do we say?
Welcome to Mingle dear.

I know what you mean about being frustrated and wanting to do something, but having nowhere to go.
There's a few things that you can do....think about what interests you, then google your city and where you live to see events and what's happening in town.
Get involved in a local community sports group if that interests you, or get involved in volunteering. Volunteering is a great way to meet people. Or you can get involved in a local church. Or you can take dance lessons, or acting lessons.
Another option is to get involved in your local 'Meetup' group. Most major cities have a Meetup chapter.

I was in a similar situation after my divorce....I went into a black hole and hid from the world for a year or so. When I got stronger and surfaced to reality I wanted to live again, but had very few friends and contacts. Instead of staying in that situation I determined to get out and live. I'm glad I did.

Good luck OP...keep chatting with us on the forums, sure...but also get up from the computer, get out in the real world and go live!
*hugs*

we could go out if you wanna stand on your feet. give me a shout.