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any girl will do
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if anything will do, what does that say about you?
what does that say about your self-esteem? doesn't say anything good. |
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well i just dont care what others think of me
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well i just dont care what others think of me "Any girl will do " says a lot more than you not caring what anyone thinks of you. ..or what you think of "girls ". |
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no i dont care what people think of me so whatever
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Edited by
Mortman
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Mon 04/08/13 01:30 PM
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OK. Let's address the conflicting statements, here. Your profile says that you're looking for "the right one in a girl", but then say, here, that "any girl will do." Clearly, "any girl" and "the right one" are not the same.
That said, you might try to put some of this into your profile. There really are many girls out there, but they're not all nice, and they're not all bad. Maybe you're open to all, but you're not going to make anybody feel special if the only reason you chose them was because nobody else would. Maybe you should care about what people think. At least a little. Show some self-respect. Also, your profile seems OK, but without a photo of yourself, you're not likely to get as much attention. It's a cute joke, but most of the women here seem to like seeing pictures of the people, to decide if they want to meet you, and your profile shows you don't have much else going on. How hard can it be to point your phone at yourself and snap a picture? |
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well i dont have any way of posting pics of myself so yeah and after so long of being called names and being picked on it takes effect on someone
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Aslong as your being yourself, who cares what people think,if you live life trying to be who someone wants you to and change to please other people your not being yourself,and you.wil find someobe who likes you for you,i wouldnt give two ***** about what others say or tell me to change :) x
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OK, so you have no way of putting digital photo and the Internet together. Sounds rough.
In that case, you need to do a MUCH better job of describing yourself in your profile. You need to add some of those 'thousand words' the picture would say. Even describe yourself very literally or use examples of people you look like. You can tell people you look like a young Bruce Willis, for example (but only if that's true). Lastly, to address micaellaa, above, I'm not saying that you should be a slave to the expectations of society. It's very noble to be yourself at all costs. Since you're seeking friends, though, you need to have empathy, which is very much caring about what others think. It's not being a jerk. Yes, you should be yourself, but just your better self. Be the things about you that people would like. There will always be haters, and those are the people you ignore. |
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thank you micaellaa finally someone who understands me :)
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Thats okay :)
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so lonely
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maybe it was a bad idea joining this site i am just getting ignored here to...
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