"A relationship with no arguments, is a relationship with a lot of secrets."

Sonnie ,

I believe u are very right if couples dont fight maybe they are not truely in love with each other

A relationship with no arguments is like a bike without pedals.

No arguments at ALL? I would suspect a doormat is involved in that relationship.

I know it’s possible to have relationship with very FEW arguments if you match two people who both think life is too precious to waste bickering over insignificant issues. Most issues couples argue over are....insignificant.

This.

Life is too amazing to waste time with such minor annoyances. But even the best relationships have differences, and despite those differences often times making things fun and exciting, somethings that can create unwanted dynamics.

Kart...you're not suggesting what I thinik....dynamatrics?

Disagree; they both just may have absolutely no real personalities...

Mums the word.

Hey Kiss...Since indifference is the only way to avoid arguments, a relationship with no arguments would not be a relationship...

I disagree! Sometimes people just do not like to "argue" and I say I want that in a Man, You have more Peace..

I disagree. A relationship where a person loves the other means that person will never knowingly do anything to hurt the other, so no need for secrets.

However, you can have discussions about how to spend money, raise the kids, etc. in a rational manner. It doesn't have to be an argument.

agreed

It must be rare for a loving relationship to have no arguments, most if not all will experience differences of opinion from time to time, either way, it does not infer secrets exist in my opinion, so I must disagree.

It must be rare for a loving relationship to have no arguments, most if not all will experience differences of opinion from time to time, either way, it does not infer secrets exist in my opinion, so I must disagree.

A relationship needs some balance, in thought, interests and commonality, yet there will be some contrast in some way, or yes maybe a lot of secrets if one or both are reluctant to not say what is on their mind or or not want to argue.

Discussing and learning from each others strengths comes to mind, At least mine. Learning to agree to disagree sometimes. Give each other room for some difference and then compromise. Sometimes it may go into an argument depending on the tempers and personality of each huh?

Arguments do have their place in a relationship. Have a nice argument, then have hot make up sex. it's a win-win.

I can't be the only one thinking in the back of my head that it is rather terrible people want, desire even, to have disagreements.

I'm talking about petty s* here, not something say; prolific, like arguing the fundamentals of an idea that is going to become bigger. No, petty s* like who left the door unlocked or didn't pick up their plates after dinner.

Terrible, really...I don't care who you are, that is pretty awful.

I don't know that having secrets in a relationship is grounds for argument, or that when known would lead to arguments. When it is possible that there are secrets that could make the relationship stronger once shared. So, I have to respectfully disagree.

Wondered how long it would take....