woman tell me i am the fatest man in the world, the most uglyest in the world,they said i am dumb,i come in a room were woman are they tell the other men to kick me out, i am not wanted any were, the world cant be wrong, some people are just born losers.

Now believing that is what makes a loser. trust me i know its hard to believe otherwise when you hear insults so much but you have to understand people do this to makes themselves feel like they are worth something. people want to use you as a stepping stool so they dont have to feel like a loser. a loser is someone who throws dirt in someone elses eye to eliminate the competition. they are the losers, not you. its not the world, its those people. the world doesnt label you. people do. people called me ugly and dumb too. i have been rejected too. but remember it happens to the best of us. so ignore those people and be that best you can be. i know i sound corny but its true. pessisism gets us nowhere. people want to see you sad and upset. why give them what they want, its not of any benefit to you. you need to find your self worth (and yes you do have some) and know it. cause there is somebody looking for a guy just like you but you wont find that person cause you are too busy being blinded by these lies. youll never be good enough comparing yourself to others. but youll always be the best when it comes down to you. know that, and understand it.

the only one who determins if your a loser is YOU.

There is much to be said for AIMS my friend !
{Attitude,Image.Motivation and SELF worth}
I am still working on these myself...
We ALL have "Worth"
bELIeve in YOU !

Only if you let yourself be one. THEY may not like how you look, but do YOU? Are you happy with your image? So you may not be a tanned beach hunk, but I bet you have an awesome personality, or a talent, hidden away. Outside gossip can be very malicious, and I tend to avoid it, because I'd rather get on with my life. They are strangers, so what does it matter?

There's not much I can say that everyone else hasn't already said. True, there are some really nasty people out there but if you focused on them, you're probably missing the people who think the universe starts with U. Why focus on the negative?
Dodo David (you'll meet him if you stick around) recently said to me, "you are responsible for your own happiness"; I'm passing that message along to you. No-one should be allowed to steal your happy and your light. No-one should be allowed to tell YOU who you are. You shouldn't be buying into their image of you, they should be buying into your image of yourself!
Plus, I don't think you see yourself as that much of a loser, otherwise you wouldn't be on here looking for someone to share your great personality with.
We all have people who belittle us and make us feel only a centimetre tall; not everyone is going to be your biggest fan, what matters is that you're your own biggest fan.
I'm far from perfect, I've been called fat, ugly, stupid etc and it gets me really down but then I write something, or I have a friend tell me how lucky they are to have me and I realise, I'm awesome, and they are the ones missing out.
Stick around here. You'll find love in abundance from people who don't care about your looks.
Welcome to the family!