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Topic: Married Man looking for a distraction!
HardWorkerMan100 Joined Fri 03/22/13 Posts: 5	Sat 03/23/13 04:14 AM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself)

HardWorkerMan100 Joined Fri 03/22/13 Posts: 5	Sat 03/23/13 06:05 AM
I do a lot of that quite regularly, as well as work long hours earning enough for us to live comfortably. Thanks for the advice.

justtosee36 Joined Sun 09/17/06 Posts: 126	Sat 03/23/13 07:12 AM
Not a thing wrong with making a new FRIEND.

francesca211 Joined Sat 03/23/13 Posts: 1	Sat 03/23/13 07:20 AM
wow i love that..you must be a man ..i like you

cuddlebunny00 Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 550	Sat 03/23/13 07:33 AM
Ya gotta do what ya gotta do. Have fun

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/23/13 07:39 AM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself) if u need a distraction try buying a new pair of jeans or go to a ball game - or maybe a marriage counselor

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/23/13 07:40 AM
If that's the case, then I wonder that you have time for distractions at all. right no need to be a PhD to see that ths does not compute ...lol

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 03/23/13 08:03 AM
AshleyMadison is a dating site for people who like to cheat. You'd be more guaranteed to find someone who likes it on there. Afterall, by coming on here, you're only halving the possibility of finding a fellow two-timer.

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Sat 03/23/13 08:19 AM
that "Full Bladder Control" is really the Clincher! That ought to get some results!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sat 03/23/13 09:07 AM


cuddlebunny00 Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 550	Sat 03/23/13 09:09 AM
Lol @ Tazz

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 03/23/13 09:55 AM Edited by Leigh2154 on Sat 03/23/13 09:55 AM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself) At your age, giving yourself high fives for bladder control seems a bit out of touch...Either way, finding someone interested in an intimate encounter gonna be tough one...

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Sat 03/23/13 10:00 AM
“If you get stuck, get away from your desk. Take a walk, take a bath, go to sleep, make a pie, draw, listen to music, meditate, exercise; whatever you do, don't just stick there scowling at the problem. But don't make telephone calls or go to a party; if you do, other people's words will pour in where your lost words should be. Open a gap for them, create a space. Be patient.” ― Hilary Mantel

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 03/23/13 10:04 AM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. It's hard for people to understand this without being privy to your "circumstances". Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I'm curious why you can't do this WITH your wife, and become even MORE happily married? I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself)

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45351	Sat 03/23/13 10:48 AM
This thread has been edited of negative comments aimed at other posters as opposed to the Topic. soufie Site Moderator

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 03/23/13 12:19 PM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself) Why do people say that they are "happily married" and then go on to say why they aren't really happy with their marriage?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 03/23/13 12:27 PM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself) Why do people say that they are "happily married" and then go on to say why they aren't really happy with their marriage? They say it because if they do get lucky and score an intimate encounter that becomes emotionally messy, as in demanding, they can always remind the person it was just about getting laid by saying something like this, "I told you from the start I was happily married"...

justmewbu Joined Sat 03/23/13 Posts: 1	Sat 03/23/13 04:12 PM
like seriously u nd ur wife need to try spicing things up in the bedroom or even doing things just the 2 of u tht u guys love to do nd dnt say u do cuz otherwise u wouldn't be on here

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 03/23/13 04:14 PM
His wife's divorce lawyers will give him plenty of distraction when she finds out.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 03/23/13 04:19 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 03/23/13 04:19 PM
I am happily married but with a challenging circumstance. Need to stop and have fun and talk and try to feel young again! Don't call it a midlife crisis lol I still have my own hair, teeth and full bladder control (High fives himself) Midlife crisis?? You're just a baby. You have a "challenging circumstance" for sure. You should talk to your wife about this. That might be very interesting. Maybe even distracting.