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Looks are an added bonus and make it much easier to daydream about your significant other. Personality and traits should come first though. I like a mix of both but that's just my personal preference. Cheers!
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Looks are important. We should Spend a little time 2 Make Ourselves Attractive Yup...I totally agree. I very rarely venture out of the house withough make-up and my 'outside clothes', as opposed to my 'indoor clothes'. This is one lady who will never wear her pyjamas to the store! 
Is that because I'm vain? No...I was raised that a lady looks like a lady and a gentleman looks like a gentleman. Attractive looks are primarily based on good hygeine, a care for appearance, and most importantly a light that glows from within. An average fellow with a killer smile and a twinkle in his eye would have more success than an 'attractive' man with dirty fingernails and unkempt hair. And dat's a *muah*  for yu Once again
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Looks are important. We should Spend a little time 2 Make Ourselves Attractive Yup...I totally agree. I very rarely venture out of the house withough make-up and my 'outside clothes', as opposed to my 'indoor clothes'. This is one lady who will never wear her pyjamas to the store!
Is that because I'm vain? No...I was raised that a lady looks like a lady and a gentleman looks like a gentleman. Attractive looks are primarily based on good hygeine, a care for appearance, and most importantly a light that glows from within. An average fellow with a killer smile and a twinkle in his eye would have more success than an 'attractive' man with dirty fingernails and unkempt hair. And dat's a *muah* for yu Once again
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Looks are important. We should Spend a little time 2 Make Ourselves Attractive Yup...I totally agree. I very rarely venture out of the house withough make-up and my 'outside clothes', as opposed to my 'indoor clothes'. This is one lady who will never wear her pyjamas to the store!
Is that because I'm vain? No...I was raised that a lady looks like a lady and a gentleman looks like a gentleman. Attractive looks are primarily based on good hygeine, a care for appearance, and most importantly a light that glows from within. An average fellow with a killer smile and a twinkle in his eye would have more success than an 'attractive' man with dirty fingernails and unkempt hair. Wearing cute PJs at home can be sexy but I don’t care so much for people that wear them in public. Hygiene is important, and the very least to be clean. Now some people find that certain natural smells from their partner to be a turn on. Does anyone remember the movie “The Breakfast Club”? Allison was the basket case that whoses habits wear unarractive and yet with a little work and help from Claire, became a beuatiful young lady. A person does not need to over do their looks but time needs to be put in. I thought Claire looked better before the makeover. After the makeover she looked like every other "prom queen". |
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So is that why you don't have any pix on your profile? 
I had a picture up. But I got too many views from men who were just looking and too young for me. I have always got a date off of date sites but not this site, so I don't really need a photo here. 
I've already met a very nice gentleman matched up from another site. 
Not having a pic up has not stop the girls from messaging me. |
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Why do people say looks should not be important? Human live by their six senses and our sight is our go to first. Looks are part of our subconscious mind that sees a healthy mate, where as our conscious mind sees it as beauty or sexy. The visual looks are not just to us humans. Many animals like peacocks display its feathers at times to attract a mate. Some birds use a dance to attract a mate to come over and check them and their nest out. Looks are like a warm use to bring the fish in close, but your personality is what will hook the mate you desire. Simple put, looks attracts, personality keeps. I agree for the most part. My attention is drawn by an attractive package, but I will only fall in love with what is inside the package. I’m sure I’m not alone in this or the phrase “total package” would not exist. This is what most people look for. I like to think that everyone is someone’s “total package”. Here's my problem. While In nature, the fish that’s attracted to the worm, EATS said worm. On a hook, the fish that’s attracted to the worm (now EATEN) is then EATEN by the angler. While a most accurate depiction of dating by angling, this proverbial comparison is a little violent don’t you think? 
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Just going off that “There is plenty of fish in the sea.”
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Just going off that “There is plenty of fish in the sea.”
Very True! |
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I dated a poor man once. He was a cutie, and we managed to have nice dates without spending a lot of money. Dinner in a nice local restaurant, not an expensive place but nice anyway. Couple of drinks in another place nearby. Lots of banter and laughs. And he was a good kisser.
For me, money isn't everything. It's nice to have, but there are other things that are far more important to me. |
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Oh, and he paid for the first two dates, while I asked him on and thus paid for the 3rd. After that, we alternated or split the cost. Only fair, I think!
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Just going off that “There is plenty of fish in the sea.” I know it and get it. I'm only being playful. It's just what I do. 
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I dated a poor man once. He was a cutie, and we managed to have nice dates without spending a lot of money. Dinner in a nice local restaurant, not an expensive place but nice anyway. Couple of drinks in another place nearby. Lots of banter and laughs. And he was a good kisser. For me, money isn't everything. It's nice to have, but there are other things that are far more important to me. Not the most important thing to me either. But we all have different opinions on who we date and why. |
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Looks may be the first thing to attract someone.... however, once they open their mouth, it's open season.
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Looks are important. We should Spend a little time 2 Make Ourselves Attractive Yup...I totally agree. I very rarely venture out of the house withough make-up and my 'outside clothes', as opposed to my 'indoor clothes'. This is one lady who will never wear her pyjamas to the store!
Is that because I'm vain? No...I was raised that a lady looks like a lady and a gentleman looks like a gentleman. Attractive looks are primarily based on good hygeine, a care for appearance, and most importantly a light that glows from within. An average fellow with a killer smile and a twinkle in his eye would have more success than an 'attractive' man with dirty fingernails and unkempt hair. And dat's a *muah* for yu Once again
*blush* Thanks hun
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Edited by
MetalShadow6
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Fri 03/15/13 07:28 PM
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Looks may be the first thing to attract someone.... however, once they open their mouth, it's open season.
That is a problem because we men tend to stick our foot in our mouths.
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Why do people say looks should not be important? Human live by their six senses and our sight is our go to first. Looks are part of our subconscious mind that sees a healthy mate, where as our conscious mind sees it as beauty or sexy. The visual looks are not just to us humans. Many animals like peacocks display its feathers at times to attract a mate. Some birds use a dance to attract a mate to come over and check them and their nest out. Looks are like a warm use to bring the fish in close, but your personality is what will hook the mate you desire. Simple put, looks attracts, personality keeps. I must be really weird then (insert sad face smiley here), because almost all men I've dated, I was attracted to their sense of humor first. Also, well, they weren't even what you would consider hot to look at. They looked pretty average, if anything. They never stood out looks-wise. So they you have it. I'm officially weird :) |
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Why do people say looks should not be important? Human live by their six senses and our sight is our go to first. Looks are part of our subconscious mind that sees a healthy mate, where as our conscious mind sees it as beauty or sexy. The visual looks are not just to us humans. Many animals like peacocks display its feathers at times to attract a mate. Some birds use a dance to attract a mate to come over and check them and their nest out. Looks are like a warm use to bring the fish in close, but your personality is what will hook the mate you desire. Simple put, looks attracts, personality keeps. Amen to that! |
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Just going off that “There is plenty of fish in the sea.” Are you trying to mention a certain dating site, by NOT mentioning it? ;). I have trouble with the 'Plenty More Fish In The Sea' theory, because for some reason, it puts me off dating a new guy. I don't want to think there's HUNDREDS of available men waiting for me, when I'm a one-man kind of woman? |
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Why do people say looks should not be important? Human live by their six senses and our sight is our go to first. Looks are part of our subconscious mind that sees a healthy mate, where as our conscious mind sees it as beauty or sexy. The visual looks are not just to us humans. Many animals like peacocks display its feathers at times to attract a mate. Some birds use a dance to attract a mate to come over and check them and their nest out. Looks are like a warm use to bring the fish in close, but your personality is what will hook the mate you desire. Simple put, looks attracts, personality keeps. U a philosher or do u want to study philosophy? Btw, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So, I go for a girl with great confidence,right attitude, intelligence and good personality |
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Just going off that “There is plenty of fish in the sea.” Are you trying to mention a certain dating site, by NOT mentioning it? ;). I have trouble with the 'Plenty More Fish In The Sea' theory, because for some reason, it puts me off dating a new guy. I don't want to think there's HUNDREDS of available men waiting for me, when I'm a one-man kind of woman? Not really but I know the site you are talking about, but just think about it, how many different fish out there. Do you prefer a lionfish, angelfish, tuna, or even a flounder? People’s looks and personalities are vast as the different type of fish in the sea. Somewhere you will find the one just right for you. |
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