Topic: Why do people "Friend" you if they really don't want to talk
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Tue 03/12/13 07:32 PM
You can choose to show your list of friends
But i keep my friends invisible so they are not judged by the friends they have ...

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Tue 03/12/13 07:43 PM
Ahhhh..I didn't know that

soufiehere's photo
Tue 03/12/13 07:49 PM

How can you tell how many friends one has on here? Who can see how popular they are? lol

(The options to show, or not show
TESTIMONIALS and FRIENDS LIST here:
http://mingle2.com/user/edit_profile
Lower right column has the options for showing/not showing
both 'Friends' list and 'Testimonial' list.

It looks like this:
Other Settings
'Show testimonials when other users view your profile?'
Show/Don't Show
'Show your friends list when other users view your profile?'
Show/Don't Show)

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Wed 03/13/13 02:01 AM
Maybe they don't know what to say or are shy. I'm new here by the way.

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Wed 03/13/13 02:10 AM
Welcome to Mingle !
Hope you have fun and make a few good friends

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KiK

Winlei's photo
Wed 03/13/13 02:50 AM
I like the pic kik.

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Wed 03/13/13 02:58 AM
Edited by KiK2me on Wed 03/13/13 03:10 AM
Thank you Winlei

flowerforyou


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Wed 03/13/13 03:23 AM
Im not sure why people do this. . I dont except a friends request unless i have talked with them in the forums. What i hate even more . . Guys who add me as their favorites but never message me at all . . How can i be a favorite when you dont even know me? . . . BTW kik . . I enjoy most of your posts im glad you decided to join us on mingle. flowerforyou

Winlei's photo
Wed 03/13/13 03:28 AM
There are many who sent me friend invitations. Ill just accept and accept but i will not message them. If they sent me a mail ill reply but those whom i know and chat is treasured and remembered.

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Wed 03/13/13 03:33 AM

Im not sure why people do this. . I dont except a friends request unless i have talked with them in the forums. What i hate even more . . Guys who add me as their favorites but never message me at all . . How can i be a favorite when you dont even know me? . . . BTW kik . . I enjoy most of your posts im glad you decided to join us on mingle. flowerforyou


Thank you so much Penny !
How nice of you to say
I like to read your poems
and i am glad to be here as well
flowerforyou

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Wed 03/13/13 03:36 AM
Edited by KiK2me on Wed 03/13/13 03:39 AM

There are many who sent me friend invitations. Ill just accept and accept but i will not message them. If they sent me a mail ill reply but those whom i know and chat is treasured and remembered.


Winlei is so nice to me and i am very proud to be her friend as well

I would invite you as my friend too Ms Penny if you would not mind ?
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Mingle really does rock the planet
Because of friends like you ladies !

Kennee77's photo
Thu 03/14/13 05:00 AM
I Guess they Wanno talk, but some of Life's issues are Interfering

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Fri 03/15/13 04:20 AM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 03/15/13 05:06 AM
I have been on the internet for many years in my line of work
And it always seems to end up the same
At least for me anyway
People want to believe that they are "Nice"
But i think that it is more like a pity or redemption thing most times
Trying to be better than real life or something i suppose
Whatever... i don't need pity friends for sure
And i am not one of the popular or beautiful ones
I do walk with some pride and dignity
Even if it means i walk alone...

what

KiK

I think "Friends lists" are a bad idea for some of us
All Good...

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Fri 03/15/13 11:29 AM
^^^ Yesirree

:wink:

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Fri 03/15/13 11:30 AM
oops

{My azz}

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Fri 03/15/13 12:01 PM
I do not understand that either. I enjoy talking to people however, if they stop talking to me...that is hardly a friend. As you notice my list isn't long.
I left and came back and there are a few of my friends that are off my list and I did not remove them.
I blame the unicorns.

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Fri 03/15/13 12:08 PM

I do not understand that either. I enjoy talking to people however, if they stop talking to me...that is hardly a friend. As you notice my list isn't long.
I left and came back and there are a few of my friends that are off my list and I did not remove them.
I blame the unicorns.


Hey pyxxie, waving

A shorter list can be less of a headache...if thats any consolation

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Fri 03/15/13 12:14 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Fri 03/15/13 12:16 PM

I do not understand that either.
I blame the unicorns.


YEP !
i guess those Unicorns will get you every time...
laugh

{I would much rather be removed then ignored for sure}

flowerforyou

pyxxie13's photo
Fri 03/15/13 04:19 PM


I do not understand that either. I enjoy talking to people however, if they stop talking to me...that is hardly a friend. As you notice my list isn't long.
I left and came back and there are a few of my friends that are off my list and I did not remove them.
I blame the unicorns.


Hey pyxxie, waving

A shorter list can be less of a headache...if thats any consolation


Hi! bigsmile

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Fri 03/15/13 04:25 PM

Popularity contest.
Surely, if you have a lot of 'friends' you are..special.


Yep, they just want to pile up the numbers so they can feel special.