Topic: Bisexual
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Tue 03/05/13 10:19 PM
Well am in a relationship at the moment with a male person now the thing is am also into women iv known that for a long time.I just haven't told him or anyone else.We've had a threesome in the biggening of our relationship.That was the only time.But I did continue to see the female well she was my ex-sisterinlaw from my 1st man.I still have that urge to be with a female.Can anyone help or give advice PLEASE:....

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Tue 03/05/13 10:28 PM
Be who you are, but also be honest and loyal to the ones you care about. Is your question about cheating because your into two people?

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Tue 03/05/13 11:09 PM

Be who you are, but also be honest and loyal to the ones you care about. Is your question about cheating because your into two people?



but wouldnt it be truly consder cheating if she was fooling around with a man....

she fooling around with a woman.. i would think thats a huge differnce

but yet i do agree that you need to be open and honest with this guy

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Tue 03/05/13 11:15 PM
A question I think she's trying to answer.

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Tue 03/05/13 11:18 PM
Let me also add this. I think a lot of times we know the answers to our own questions.

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Wed 03/06/13 12:47 AM


Be who you are, but also be honest and loyal to the ones you care about. Is your question about cheating because your into two people?



but wouldnt it be truly consder cheating if she was fooling around with a man....

she fooling around with a woman.. i would think thats a huge differnce

but yet i do agree that you need to be open and honest with this guy


Of course it's cheating. She's having sex with someone other than her significant other. She should either explain her feelings to her man and let him know the two of them are not mutually exclusive or stop having sex outside the relationship.

Personally, I think for the OP, the former is the best option.

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Wed 03/06/13 02:58 AM
This must actually feel way confusing for you. Like a split mind, which is probz why you are confused as to know how to go about it. If you can love a woman in the same way as loving a man, then it's always double trouble, right? Trying asking yourself who you love more. Him? Yourself? Honesty is a must. Does it keep nagging away at you?

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Wed 03/06/13 03:02 AM

I still have that urge to be with a female.


I don't think the urge will ever leave because bi means you'll always want one of both genders. Maybe you could try a relationship therapist, or a LGBT therapist?

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Wed 03/06/13 06:04 AM

Well am in a relationship at the moment with a male person now the thing is am also into women iv known that for a long time.I just haven't told him or anyone else.We've had a threesome in the biggening of our relationship.That was the only time.But I did continue to see the female well she was my ex-sisterinlaw from my 1st man.I still have that urge to be with a female.Can anyone help or give advice PLEASE:....


Cheating is Cheating, regardless of what Sex yu're Doing it with.

Are yu ok with Cheating in a Relationship? Dat's the Question yu should be Answering

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Wed 03/06/13 06:43 AM
We all knw d truth.even d poster,cos putting urself in d same shoe,would u accomodate such relationship if u gat to find out dt d very person u called ur luv dates/v feelings 4 another person?ans! If its kul wit u then,live ur life

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Sat 03/09/13 10:17 PM
Yes in a way just that don't know what to do

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Sat 03/09/13 10:21 PM
Wow I got a lot if things to think about thank u all.

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Sun 03/10/13 07:11 PM


I still have that urge to be with a female.


I don't think the urge will ever leave because bi means you'll always want one of both genders. Maybe you could try a relationship therapist, or a LGBT therapist?



Or if all parties are able to be at peace with a three-way solution, they could always move to Victoria, BC which their newspaper, The Times Colonist, or Monday Magazine in a recent story dubbed the city as the bisexual capital of North America. At the very least, they would be in a very understanding community...Victoria does indeed have lots of secrets...

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Sun 03/10/13 07:16 PM
Hmu

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Thu 03/14/13 11:22 PM
i want to have bi sexual girlfrnd. help me guys.

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Fri 03/15/13 07:38 PM



Be who you are, but also be honest and loyal to the ones you care about. Is your question about cheating because your into two people?



but wouldnt it be truly consder cheating if she was fooling around with a man....

she fooling around with a woman.. i would think thats a huge differnce

but yet i do agree that you need to be open and honest with this guy


Of course it's cheating. She's having sex with someone other than her significant other. She should either explain her feelings to her man and let him know the two of them are not mutually exclusive or stop having sex outside the relationship.

Personally, I think for the OP, the former is the best option.
What was that. You think she should bring her over more often and share.

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Sat 03/16/13 02:00 PM

What was that. You think she should bring her over more often and share.


That is one option. But, having a sexual relationship with someone other than who you have agreed to be exclusive with is cheating. She should either explain her feelings to her S/O, leave the relationship or keep it to herself and never act on those feelings.