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Topic: Being "picky" or selective?
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Mon 03/04/13 01:10 PM

If one has a good selection and screening process, more than 75% of the problems are already handled.


You make a good point Rich...When ManO and I decided to meet, it was almost a technicality ...

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Mon 03/04/13 01:32 PM
Edited by xxL4LUNCHBOX on Mon 03/04/13 01:37 PM
well thank god we have the freedom of choice .just wish it was freedom not to make a stupid choice lol.

best thing to not build up your hopes then you be 100% supprised .
never tar folk by the same tar brush ,as you gave your ex`s .as theres only a small persentage of each type you liked, or were drawn too that can be the wrong ones

better to open your mind to a persons persona than look at the book without reading

you cant not share your interest here if you really are interested. and guys and girls are both shy really just guys trained to hide it.and ltr a girl finds him as a negative thinker ( and other things i wont rep

dont just look for somone you want to grow old with,but someone you want to grow with too

celtic blessings n good luck

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Mon 03/04/13 09:07 PM

You know, you'll always get others telling you to lower your standards, but in all actuality, you could end up with a wife-beater, a thug, a drug addict, if you do. So you do what you want. You're obliged. No one can control you.


This is so true. I lowered my standards twice; one was an abuser and the other an alcoholic. So much for lower expectations.

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Wed 03/06/13 03:26 PM
I try to be level-headed and have realistic expectations. But I am hoping to marry Prince charming. I dated three different men for a short time each was friendship. All wanted to get married, but I declined their proposals. I am working on another relationship now, we are just friends now. So, hope is still in the air.drinker

Marriage minded men are hard to meet. Picky...that's me.:tongue: laugh

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