Topic: Why is it so hard to find someone?
Steelrudi's photo
Sun 03/03/13 04:24 PM
I'm new to this site. I've tried other sites, and frankly they just suck. So....This is the last one I'm going to try, and then it's off to the monestary!!!!! Anywho. I am single/divorced. I am a retired individual, I am a great cook, clean up after myself, bathe often, and I even enjoy doing the dishes, and laundry. I'm a veteran, build models, play video games, like old, and new movies, and all types of music. I think I'm a decent person, and am loyal to my partner. I dont get it!!! maybe it's because I dont drive or I'm on a fixed income from disability. I just dont have the answers anymore. Any input? Feel free to let me know. Thanks.

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 03/04/13 01:12 AM
Yeah, not working and having a disability will put a lot of them off. You also smoke apparently.

It's still not impossible to meet women on these sites. Try to be more positive or relaxed about it maybe and you might have more luck with it. I've found that when you don't expect too much from it and just take the atitude that you are going to have a bit of fun chatting with women on the internet and it's not the end of the world if nothing comes from it it becomes easier.

Not sure what you're complaining about though. Are you complaining about not getting responses or not getting dates or dates not going well for you or what?


TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 03/04/13 01:32 AM
Meeting someone isn't that difficult. It's all about you. If you lead an interesting life, people will want to join you in it.

I met a man that was in an accident and paralyzed from the waist down. When he couldn't drive, he designed a truck that he could drive. In fact, he designed a number products for himself to make his life easier and then started selling them to others with similar problems. He became wealthy because he had the right attitude and didn't allow his disability to slow him down.

He's a dynamic person and people love being around him because he gives off a positive vibe. Being around him makes others feel good. And what woman wouldn't be attracted to that?

So, be happy! Be a positive and dynamic person! Make your life exciting and women will come to you because most men are dull.