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Right, but first, I had responded to the person who said they wanted to know someone's weight. To find that out, generally you'd have to ask. And then you said in your response that you ask if they're "curvy." I don't disagree that looks are important, though, and you have to be attracted to someone in order to go out on a date.

Yeah, I've asked women if they would describe themselves as "curvy" and I've even asked them what size bra they wear. It's not the sort of thing that I would ask them about straight away though and I have gone on dates without knowing what they looked like. For me at least, it's going to be on the actual date that I'm going to find out how atractive I find them.

I don't think this is any big secret but a lot of (if not most) men aren't all that picky about who they will go to bed with. If the woman is pretty and has a nice body that's a definite plus but it's not always a deal breaker.

That gave me an idea. From now on I'm not going out with any man who cannot guess my weight.

Seriously though, Duttoneer, when we try to envision what we want in a partner or relationship, we can only judge from our past experiences. If you know what she THINKS her ideal is before she experiences YOU, how can you know that she was not wrong about what she wants?

I hope you mean that you'll leave your mind OPEN????
I had to mess with someone here. You seem like a good sport.

Quite right!

Oh, you meant that you'll ask a woman if they describe themselves as curvey, rather than asking their weight.

And when I first read this response, it sounded like you went on dates not knowing what someone looked like, which didn't make sense, because if you're on a date you'll know what they look like. But, I think you meant without knowing beforehand?

If you meet them online, a recent full body picture and a face picture will probably answer most questions about looks.

Perfect! Maybe you don't have to pose the thrid question pending the answers to the first two. You're GOOD!

Tawt, it's not fair for you to ask a girl that question online...there's no face slapping emoticons in which to offer a proper response.

I may misunderstand your first Q... you are picking a meeting place based on their wardrobe styling/preference not on their pysical appeal, right?

Yes, I meant that I've asked them to describe their figure before actually meeting them, both on the phone and by email.

I am ppartially sighted and can't always tell a lot from the pictures on profiles.

Anyway, I would only ask a question like "Would you describe yourself as curvy?" when they have already been flirting with me and I've told them that I have bad eyesight. Maybe I already know fine well that they are curvy though and what I really want them to tell me is their bra size? I have never actually asked anyone to tell me how big they are online though. Like I said, it's not a deal breaker and it's more of a way of flirting than anything really. It's not the sort of question that I would ask anyone that I didn't already know was sexually atrackted to me and would be likely to slap my face.

But yeah, "What's sex with her going to be like?" is something that I'm going to want to know and I can make an educated guess about that based on both personality and body shape.

I am interested in meeting someone to have fun with! Maybe a cowgirl up for a Rodeo? Very down to earth guy! Just wanted to have fun!

Sometimes 'Open' Might not Mean Completely

So, Blank I Choose , not even tryin 2 think of What 2 Expect

Nope. U a go-between?

Nope,East African-Ugandan!!

I assume we havent met yet,so,if its first date,i dont want to go sit at a wrong table,so,a desciption helps-including what he is wearing...

I do understand what you meant by it. I was only teasing you because all of us know from your presence on in the forums that your MIND ITSELF is anything but BLANK.

I've got you. It could prove awkward to meet the wrong person.

Matchmaker? You might not want to trust MY instincts on these things.