I'm sure we all have question marks in certain areas when it comes to the opposite sex. Post a question and let's help each other out.

1. What does it mean when a guy stares constantly but never speaks? There's eye contact but no words..just a stare. ~rips hair out~

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO SAY OR DO?

2. Do you make the first move or approach someone you're interested in? If so, what hints or actions do you take?

I try to give eye contact and smile ..doesn't work. I have to yell or spell it out


3.What do you do when there is unwanted attention?

Most older men stare at me and flirt with ice cream. well recently at the mall anyway..then there's men with kids right next to them that flirt with me too

awaits.. sigh

Sheeeesh, Bored.


If you lived by me I know how to treat you right!

oh my joshy ..oh my LOL

Like a few days ago the older man with a kid and ice cream experience happened ~shutters~

...ick.... lol


oh my oh my? Is that good... or bad>?

you saw the blush.. what you think joshy?

it's good ..derrrrrrrrrrr

lol men are like big kids they like the cat and mouse game and hard to get,and if a man is not saying anything hes probally thinking about something sexual

joshy,

can you answer my questions..you're a guy

Are there some areas in the opposite sex that confuse you. I know you got stories!

southern bee

I hate to generalize ALL men but the most I meet talk about something sexual all the time. Guys I tend to meet always want to move too fast

If I stare at you but never say a word, that is probably because I cannot think of anything appropriate to say, and when I do it will come out wrong and I will sound like an idiot, then you will shoot me down and I go away saying to myself, "STUPID, STUPID"

i know all ment arent one track minded

men want to see how far you will let then go and if you stand up and put your foot down they will back off

i refuse to settle and should shouldnt have to settle either

bobson you're hilarious

You have any areas about women that confuse you or dating in general?

If I stare at you but never say a word, that is probably because I cannot think of anything appropriate to say, and when I do it will come out wrong and I will sound like an idiot, then you will shoot me down and I go away saying to myself, "STUPID, STUPID"

" " Sorry.
Kat

southern bee I want puppies instead of babies. I want to get married someday but only when I'm ready.

Many guys I meet want you to pop out like 3-5 babies

"1. What does it mean when a guy stares constantly but never speaks? There's eye contact but no words..just a stare. ~rips hair out~"

It means one of two things -- Either he's attracted to you, but is too shy or intimidated or uncoordinated to walk up and say so, fearing that you will call him a disgusting pig ("What makes you think that I would even lower myself to even looking in your general direction, you disgusting pig?" -- which I actually saw happen to a guy in the mall once) -- and will throw various objects at him (nail file, rocks, purse, anvil, etc.) --

OR:

He thinks you might be somebody else, somebody he hasn't seen in a very long time, but isn't quite sure enough to walk over and ask. He believes constant staring will eventually drill a hole through your skin and he will be able to tell who you are by examining your bone structure from 100 feet away.

All very simple once you know the underlying psychology.

well i read or heard that people who dont have kids are more happy,

but if u have good standards and dont settle you will find the man that deserves to be with you

or you set him on fire if he ****s up!

ahh hello lex,i always enjoy your words of wisdom

Ah yes, the wise Lex. What do I do if I like the guy that stares..it's so awkward

What about questions #2 and #3?

all men are not one track minded

sometimes we see an attractive girl and would like to get to know her

but being seen as a sex maniac only can damage our confidence with women

what's wrong with just meeting at McDonald's for fries and a soda to talk?

nothing wrong with that bobson