Topic: Figuring out the opposite sex
southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:00 PM
nothing wrong at all,its a nice public places with lots of witnessess laugh laugh

Joshy44's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:01 PM
...oh, I have too many stories....

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Mon 08/13/07 09:01 PM
Bobson, I hope you don't think I put men in the category as ALL sex crazy because that's just silly. There are some true sweet hearts out there flowerforyou like yourself

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Mon 08/13/07 09:02 PM
:angry: spill it joshy (no I'm not really angry, just kidding) :smile:

Well ask questions that you don't get about women or dating in general ..you do this all the time LOL

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Mon 08/13/07 09:03 PM
yeah not all guys are rude pigs some are truly nice guys

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Mon 08/13/07 09:04 PM
the nice guys are REALLY hard to find and so precious :heart:



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Mon 08/13/07 09:06 PM
very true...flowerforyou

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Mon 08/13/07 09:06 PM
question #2

Ladies, men are not all the aggressive animals you think we are

some of us are just scared little boys inside

YES, walk up to us and say "Hi"

once the spinning and dizziness stops, we can say "Hi" backflowerforyou

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Mon 08/13/07 09:08 PM
laugh "spinning and dizziness"

Okay bobson, let me give you a realistic setting. You know how the mall has 2 opposite sides to walk. Each side is walking in opposite directions.

Say the guy that's staring REALLY hard is walking on the opposite side slowly..staring..then what?

It's so awkward to cut corners and the middle isle sellers to say "hi" laugh I should one day just to see what happens

southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:09 PM
yes i know,but the majority of men want in yur pants and by the time the nice guy gets the nerve to say hi were so frusterated, we jsut assume hes another pig

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Mon 08/13/07 09:12 PM
Personally, I try never to jump to assumptions and get to know a guy.

I get frustrated that when I do experience rare mutual attraction...NOTHING HAPPENS laugh It ends where it starts.

Joshy44's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:14 PM
<~~~ Is a nice guy.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:16 PM
i guess the guy is scared heck idk

bobson's photo
Mon 08/13/07 09:18 PM
it's all just one big scary

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Mon 08/13/07 09:20 PM
can anyone answer #2 and #3 laugh

the unwanted attention question will be funny

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Mon 08/13/07 09:20 PM
i like to let the men chase me...laugh laugh

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Mon 08/13/07 09:21 PM
"3.What do you do when there is unwanted attention?"

I'm really good at avoidance, running away, fading into the background, hiding in a closet, or whatever. I would rather avoid the situation than have to get into a 9-hour debate over why I could never be interested. It's very difficult for me to just tell someone straight out, "Sorry, I'm nauseated by the very sight of you," unless they're my ex-in-laws.

I learned how to do accents, though, so I can say a lot of things that would sound implausible coming from an American, but which might work if you sound like you're from somewhere else. Like, "In my country, we do not entanglement ourself with woman of unbecoming shoe," in a Russian accent. They still don't like it -- but, unless they actually know something about Russian shoe customs, they won't question it.


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Mon 08/13/07 09:23 PM
lol lex...i dont wanna be mean either but heck if your annoying im gonna tell you,rather then have your blood on my hands lol!

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Mon 08/13/07 09:24 PM
Question: Why don't any girls want to date me?

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Mon 08/13/07 09:25 PM
Lex once again bravo

so funnnnnnnny laugh laugh

Lex- "It's very difficult for me to just tell someone straight out, "Sorry, I'm nauseated by the very sight of you,"

hilarious!

I tried to hint to this guy I wasn't interested in the most polite manner...

Him: "So can I have your number and call you sometime."

Me: "I'm not looking for anyone right now."

Him: "Well I'm looking for FRIENDS too, we can be friends"



:wink: The way he said "friends" was a way to escape rejection. I can see if it was a friendly conversation, but it was more of a HIT than anything. His intentions were to get my cell phone and date.

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