Topic: Opposites attract?
Winlei's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:19 PM
Do opposites really attract? Hmmmm maybe sometimes

Movie07's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:23 PM
:banana: flowers Yes we do and yes they do:smile:

Winlei's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:36 PM
How? Not all opposite attracts....hate and love. I know at some point they do but most of the time not.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:37 PM

Do opposites really attract? Hmmmm maybe sometimes




Hmmm. Let me think . . .



I am a male Melmacian in his 40s.
Winlei, you are a pretty female Asian in her 20s.
I find you to be attractive.
So, the answer to your question is, "Yes."

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Thu 02/14/13 01:41 PM
This has to be true.

I cannot imagine being with my 'copy.'

sick

no photo
Thu 02/14/13 08:12 PM

Do opposites really attract? Hmmmm maybe sometimes



Not with me. I want a guy I have stuff in common with, otherwise we won't really get along.

no photo
Thu 02/14/13 08:16 PM
doubtful on the long term - it's better to have values and interests in common

some opposite traits can be OK depending on the people - some introverts for example are attractd to extroverts but I am not I prefer introverted folk more like me

JulieMP's photo
Thu 02/14/13 09:26 PM
Becoming attracted to an opposite is common, so to explore that which you are not. It is opening yourself to another world.
To live and base a relationship with an opposite is not ever going to be successful.

You are attracted based solely on learning and experiencing something new. You do not stay attracted because you tend to realize that is why you are opposite to begin with.

jacktrades's photo
Thu 02/14/13 09:30 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Thu 02/14/13 09:31 PM
When your young yes when you get older you want someone who's in your life style.

Winlei's photo
Fri 02/15/13 06:04 AM
Well i posted this topic because had read it and i just want to know how you people will react to this

no photo
Fri 02/15/13 10:04 AM

How? Not all opposite attracts....hate and love. I know at some point they do but most of the time not.


The difference is often one of perspective not of distance. Love to one may appear to be hate to another. So without a definition of each "opposite" you may be experiencing a personality shift. We all are attracted to those qualities that we lack within ourselves, so in that definition opposites do attract.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 02/15/13 04:46 PM


Yes, most of the time.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 02/15/13 05:00 PM
Opposites often complete one another. But, it's best when both are already complete on their own.