"Playing it cool" Works better on this Site

I think playing it cool is the best approach to everything in life... unless it's a matter of life and death... why sweat the small stuff...

What would you do?
If a man told you he was lonely and seeking YOU
What would you do?
If a women said that he was not the one for you.
What would you do?
If you somehow mustered up the courage to have your own mind & LOVE a man who came your way and loved you............
What would you do?
To someone who is loyal to YOU......
What would you do?

I would ask him what it is in me that caught his attention and makes him think he was seeking only me...

I would listen to her reasons, to see if she has a past experience with him that he keeps secret from me, yet she finds it important enough to clue me in...

If I had the courage, because I do have my own mind, and the man convinced me of his true self, his intentions, and his love for me, and my thoughts and feelings were mutual, I would surrender my will, and follow my heart...

I would reward his loyalty with my own...

When and if i decide to meet a lady on here to go out i will make the suggestion:We meet at a mutual public area,and continue to the place of choice in her vehicle"of course i will pay for dinner,and her gas"This way if my intentions were other than Honorable,she could put me to the curb to walk back to my vehicle!Then both could decide to presue the relationship further!This way she may feel safer to meet or not!Just a suggestion from me!!

hi graywolf, nice to meet you... I like that you would pay all the expenses for the first date, but why leave your car unattended where ever you decide to meet publicly... why don't the two of you meet at the place you choose to dine? I know from personal experience that if you acted up in my car I couldn't just open the door and shove you out while the car is in motion, and if you intended to do harm to me, even with the car stopped you could still over power me before I could escape... so, I'd have to really have faith in you before I let you in my car to take you anywhere. just saying...