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Topic: sex on the first date
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Thu 02/14/13 03:31 PM


how many of us would have sex on the first date

How many are there of you?



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Thu 02/14/13 05:34 PM

how many of us would have sex on the first date
it may depend on other factors. Especially if I been talking with her for a while before we went on a date and we really hit it off.

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Thu 02/14/13 08:03 PM
if it happens go for it

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Thu 02/14/13 08:06 PM
I'd like to meet someone who I would WANT to have sex on the first date with....

so no it's prolly not gonna happen....:tongue:

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Fri 02/15/13 11:41 AM
I say go with the flow what happens happens

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Fri 02/15/13 01:33 PM
It depends why you're dating.

If you are after a long term relationship - no; because you'll never be sure why you are attracted to each other. Get to know each other first.
If you are casually dating, why not? Just watch that you don't then fall for each other. (see point 1)

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Sun 02/17/13 02:22 AM
Yeah,first date

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Sun 02/17/13 05:02 AM

how many of us would have sex on the first date


No... I won't have sex on the first date... I'll get to know the man first... so we can see how much we have in common intellectually... to me, it's more important to feel comfortable with how we can relate to each other spiritually... if we have a deeply profound mind melding connection, any limitations in our physical link can always be worked on and improved as we experiment, teaching each other what we like... so, there's no rush to meld our bodies at this early stage of the relationship... there's nothing wrong with kissing at this point though... tongue2

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Sun 02/17/13 05:31 AM

A lot of it depends on your definition of sex, there are many aspects of it without having actual intercourse. Much of it depends on how long you have communicated before that first date, and the details of the conversations, even words alone can be stimulating and have a profound effect on that first meeting. Just saying!

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Sun 02/17/13 07:18 AM


how many of us would have sex on the first date


No... I won't have sex on the first date... I'll get to know the man first... so we can see how much we have in common intellectually... to me, it's more important to feel comfortable with how we can relate to each other spiritually... if we have a deeply profound mind melding connection, any limitations in our physical link can always be worked on and improved as we experiment, teaching each other what we like... so, there's no rush to meld our bodies at this early stage of the relationship... there's nothing wrong with kissing at this point though... tongue2


I tend to agree with this. It depends on a few things - like whether we've known each other before we started dating. If it is someone I have met online and we have no other history or foundation the no, most likely not gonna happen. Even with someone I know well, it will depend then on other circumstances - like if I think he is sincere or just lookin' to get laid....

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