I know you all want a man who is kind, caring, compassionate, non-judgmental, fun, and loyal. Now beyond that. No not a job car/pickup or a place, but what else do you all really look for? is it how they are with people is it how they walk talk or maybe it is everything? just wondering looking to maybe find some answers to some stuff within my own life, who better to ask than the perfect strangers? LOL have fun with this one

Being sober is a good start.

Just be happy and know who you are. The "right one" will come along if you stay true to your own journey.

Good luck!

Yeah, I'm looking for all that stuff...

But more specific to me? I want a guy who will swing dance with me...experience is a bonus.

I want a guy who is willing to deal, in one way or another, with my karaoke addiction.

I want a guy who is protective, but not posessive.

Honestly, I want a guy who is taller than me. (I'm 5'10")

I also want a guy who is not only good to me, but good to others, friends, family, even perfect strangers. Nothing is more annoying than a guy who cuts down everyone he sees.

I'm sure the list goes on, but those are specific to me...:)

INTEGRITY. INTEGRITY. INTEGRITY. INTEGRITY.

Friendship...
Someone to do things with and confide in...
Someone to share and enjoy life with...

You really covered a lot of the bases.

I actually want someone who is a little shy and is generally a happy person. I don't want someone who is going to get in someones face or get angry for simple things.

I want someone who is proud to be with me and makes me feel important to him. Wants to hang out like a friend as well as a lover.

It really doesn't matter to me how they walk or how they talk. I do seem to be more fond of men who have other passions, like music or skating, or something that drives them.

And I want a guy who can handle my cellphone texting addiction LOL :)

your wallet.the rest is just gravy..

Dam CLDM...

How about adventurous, spontaneous, unafraid to open himself up to new thoughts, ideas and experiences? And, someone loyal and unafraid of emotion?

All women want your eternal soul so they can live forever. Nature teaches us that women are dominate and males are dispensable (preying mantis's anyone?)

6 pack?

RONTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!

In the long run, does it really matter. I am so far from most people I find utterly charming here. Will I ever be able to meet them, somehow I doubt it.

Everything but the wallet was what I thought I'd hear, everyone has a dream "whatever" but when the "honeymoon stage" is over and the "real" person starts to show there flaws, why is it that the flaws out weigh everything else? Why is it that when you are real people tend to want you to be something your not. Please don't think I am doubting that you all are good people, I am only trying to see why we, as we are, are so judgmental? Why is it that we all want the perfect whatever, and then we find them and find out they have flaws. we tend to push them away, is it because we are scared they will not be able to deal with our own flaws, or just because we strive for perfection? When in reality we KNOW that does NOT exist...

I think you just have to realize everyone has flaws and it just depends if the two people can live with each others flaws that make them who they are.

People deffinately all have flaws... Learning to be our selves
flaws and all and sharing life is what a relationship is all
about... flaws and all...

To me its the little quirks and things that shape a persons character and personality.Perfect people are usually plastic and phoney.the wallet thing was a joke lol

but if you have a 6 pack all those flaws magicly disappear

I have a six pack of bottled water