Topic: 10 turnoffs that make good guys wave off | |
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This is off an article I saw on Yahoo. Found it interesting, thought I would share.
1. Misleading Maggie: Her profile says no kids, athletic and raking in the big bucks. The first date reveals two young kids, an extended waistline and unemployment checks. Nothing says trust issues for a guy more than lies from the get-go 2. Insecure Ilene: She reads into every comment a guy makes. She wants to know right away if date #2 can be tomorrow. She asks you to call the minute you get home. This clingy nature screams of a potential needy girlfriend lacking independence. 3. Third-Degree Donna: The cross-examination begins before the menus arrive. The questions are coming fast and furious, and the guy begins to feel like the defendant on the stand in a criminal trial. If a guy feels stuck under the interrogation lights, he'll run for the hills. 4. Tardy Tina: She arrives late, she no-shows, she changes plans last-minute, she loses his number, she flat-out just doesn't respect a guy's time. Fashionably late is one thing; keeping a guy waiting 30 minutes or no-showing is unacceptable. 5. High-Maintenance Hilda: "Thanks for taking me to this nice restaurant, but couldn't you get a table by the window?" The feeling that nothing is ever good enough makes a guy quit trying to impress 6.Chatterbox Charlene: The conversation doesn't have to be 50 percent talking and 50 percent listening, but if she does all the talking it feels more like a seminar than a date. Charlene's opposite cousin, Pulling Teeth Patricia, is equally unsettling, making the guy do all the work. 7. Still-Hurting Sally: First dates are notorious for spilling the beans on what went wrong with prior relationships. Sharing an amusing anecdote is good; making it clear you're not over your ex-boyfriend is a definite no-no. 8. Game Player Gina: "Maybe I'll kiss you goodnight, maybe I won't." Good guys like to know where they stand. They leave the game-playing for the sports field. There's nothing wrong with flirting, but just know when it crosses over into deception and confusion. 9. Conceited Colleen: "Any guy would be lucky to have me." Guess what, the great guy across the table is also a real catch. Stop assuming every guy doesn't deserve you, and then you'll be on your way to actually landing a good one. 10. Matrimony Maureen: He dips his egg roll in duck sauce when all of a sudden she spills the beans on what they should name their kids. Intense relationships can be exciting for a good guy, but walking down the aisle before you walk each other home for the first time is a turn-off. |
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wow thats great |
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Love it but why name your kids before you even make it to bed.
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that was good, and it is also a two way street, if the guy is continually late, wellllllll
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this was really cute, about time the girls start looking at their own behavior instead of blaming it all on the guys
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thanks for sharing silkbutterfli
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There is one posted for the guys too. Didn't want to single out anyone, lol
I really thought that this way great. Yahoo's dating information is informative, interesting and some times funny. Good luck to all us ladies! |
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Did I see STALKERS in that list??
Scared the hell out of me.........BIG turnoff!!! |
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That was nicely put...gives you something to think about
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2. Insecure Ilene: She reads into every comment a guy makes. She wants to know right away if date #2 can be tomorrow. She asks you to call the minute you get home. This clingy nature screams of a potential needy girlfriend lacking independence.
I had this one.......only she wanted the first date right now ...second message she sent me.....I said I wanted to get to know her a little more and she flipped out.....I ran to the other end of the computer as fast as I could |
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nice article...i couldnt relate to this much..though
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I this.
Thanx for sharing. Do all guys expect a kiss on the 1st date? Why? They won't get one from me..LOL I don't know them well enough then. |
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never expected - but it *can* be nice
even before the first date! |
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LOL slowhand A kiss on the cheek is okay
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YO thats y i stop datting a STALKER been though it and know wont let a woman know where i live till i realy know her its safer that way.
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