Ok, so I did read your policy and conditions and was quite happy to see you made it clear about "suggestive" behavior. Now don't get me wrong I am not a prude by any means, but have you seen your onsite ad's really! How about adding "Craig s List" or "Hot" pick a category "Asians" "Cougars" the list is endless. Gonna give it a bit, see what attracts this site. Plus I also see you are not independent, I clicked on a picture and was directed to fill out yet another profile for "a different site". I hope I didn't make a mistake and get bombarded with SPAM. They always say "nothing's for free baby".
Guess we'll see.

Sounds like you are clicking on ads..which will have offers.
Easy to avoid that.

Sticking to profiles and forums should keep the SPAM away.
If you get unwelcome email or suspect a scammer, there is
a 'Report This User' to the right of every profile..as it
is so easy to join, some will try until reported.

Good luck, the forums are where it's at :-)