Simple solution really..... Kick his *** to the curb! You deserve better than what he's dishing out!!!

Your right. Trust is the most important. Iv enown in my heart I need to this guy go

Sorry for sounding slightly Oprah Winfrey about it, just that I hate seeing people used, or taken for granted. Even my own mum has asked me for advice at times, which may seem bizarre, as she is older than me, and had more experience than me. I know what I would do, if I was in your shoe's. You deserve a guy AS GOOD AS you, not LOWER than you. I wonder why he is so hung up on this ex of his. If he had really moved on, he wouldn't even consider trying to make her jealous. Instead of getting on with his life, he is messing you and her around like hell knows what. He needs a good firm kick up the butt. He'd be out of my house with his belongings like a shot, because I may be a sweet person, but boy do I take no prisoners. I won't take ANYONE'S crap, no matter who it may be. .

Lori, do yourself a favor and dump his dumb ***! He thinks he is a fisherman and has you hooked good. You are being used for a door mat by this clown. You need to put distance between this loose and yourself. He is lying to your face. I bet he has his nose up some other woman's backside already and I would bet she is fat and ugly but loose as a sewer pipe!!!

This is an easy problem to solve. WIZE UP. Get rid of him as soon as possible. Damn.

If you don't, don't whine about your problems, they are easy to solve.

Then start working on your self esteem issues because you must have them to put up with a moocher like that.

AMEN!

Sadly, I know many women put up with dog crap for men because they are LONELY. They are afraid to be alone. It's a human condition. I wouldn't be so hard on the OP. This has happened to the best of us. When you become emotionally involved with someone, it is very difficult to move on, even when you know better mentally. It's heart over mind.

this^^

believe it or not , people form a certain NETWORK of friends/acquaintances that arent predicated on anything physical at all


and if they enjoy that communication, I think the best thing is to join them and maybe begin participating as a couple

I dont think its necessary for a person to let go of their previous acquaintances when they get in a relationship UNLESS those acquaintances are of a romantic nature

Lori... It's the new year, time for some good change...start within yourself...goodluck with your lovelife.

he's a total headcase

Lori; please keep us updated and let us know when you finally toss this free loader out.

I understand that but from experience... and I am 63 so I do have some experience.... I have learned that being alone is sometimes a lot easier than being with someone... especially if that someone is taking your money, or being abusive.

I found "alone" to be a good thing. Preferable.

when one finds a partner a companion a lover a helpmate then one has absolutely NO EXCUSE for visiting dating sites. that translates into yes, i have you but i am NOT fully satisfied. wake up, dont allow anyone to de-value or under-appreciate you.

I stay here for the free beer. Oh, and cause I'm still waiting on my free T-shirt!

AMEN!!!

It looks like you were looking for validation to decisions you had already contemplated and you got plenty of support.

My advice. Don't move in with a guy you have not known long enough to have already developed a trust with.

If you are truly dating a user, they will run if they figure out they cannot use you. Just know when they run its because of themselves and it is not about you.

Happy new year.

This is a dating website, what are YOU doing here?

That was explained earlier. Keep up!

Whatever gave you the idea that a man has made a permanent commitment to you if he just lives with you?

Kick him to da' coib.

Post a pic and put yer sweet self back on the butcher block, Baby!