why why go out with some one when u know ur goin to get hurt is it the
fun in getin hurt or lookin for the right one i dont know sex cant be
cuz i dont look for sex that is the bonis and it meens somethin if u
dont have it all the time

Sex also means a lot more if you find someone you care about. It's our
nature to try and find someone to share this short amount of time we
have on this earth. Yes, putting yourself out into the dating field does
result in a lot of pain, but most of everyone is able to take something
out of relationships and put forth their knowledge into the next to try
and make it work. Hang in there. In the end, when you do find the
person, you'll understand why you went through all that you did.

ya but it sucks so bad why cant it be easy to find a gurl that would
want to go out with and try to find out who u r and like u for u not try
to chang u i dont get that

You bring up a good point. No matter what, be true to yourself. If you
are able to maintain that, then sooner or later, you'll run into someone
who will be attracted to you for you.

see did that the she leson to a 17 yr old gurl and now she does not talk
to any one and that 17 yr old got her fired from her job and all typs of
shit see why doe gurls leson to people like that she she sis not even
new her that long only 4 mouths and she toke off it sucks

I think that maybe when women/men get into a relationship with
some one, and then try and change who they are, then they're maybe just
tring to make you into the person that they want,you know, the person
that they give up on finding.

ya that is a good why to put it

Not neceserilly. Not all the men want to change the men. You just didnt
find the right one yet. Keep searching. And from another side, it's
depence how you personally accept the things. U may thing she tries to
change you, but she doesnt feel like that. Its all depence of the
prospective, I guess...

ya but why chang u and not get to know who u r for how u r guys like
that why cant gurls see that

Can't tell you danny. Sometimes I also think most of the women are weird
- too material...

Danny, sounds like you've been really hurt. I think you need to take it
easy and not try to get back into a dating relationship right away. You
seem really angry and resentful of what happened to you and that is a
normal, human feeling. If you try to keep busy, do some fun things,
things that you like to do and that don't remind you of the person that
hurt you, you will get over the pain. It takes time, though. Being along
is hard, but it's not the end of the world and it will help you get some
perspective on the situation.

ya tell me about it i cant stand that shit when gurls try to chang me i
say it is a wast of time if a gurl will try to chang u and not to get to
know u for u i say they went out with u cuz of u why chang it they
might get worst not beter

ya will everything i do and love to do i did it with the person i should
her and did it with her cuz i was stupid now no mater what i do i think
of her it sucks ass that is why i want to movie out of rhode island
start a new life make new friends o ya she she hangs with all my
friends so i cant even see them with out thinkin of she

How long ago did this happen? You need to give it time, I'd say a few
months at least to feel better. Try some new things.

i did i got a new car to fix it up nad to get it all up so i can race
it just like my 300zx now i have 2 cars and no im goin to sup up and
honda civic hatch back 96 and im goin to have fun with it and im talkin
to a new gurl she is really cool lots of fun like to talk alot gets my
mind of a shit and on to her my life now goin good

Sometimes Danny women just can't help themselves it is built in to us.
We try to change everything or make it better. Don't let it bother you,
maybe we see things that other people don't see.
My ex-husband was always trying to change me to be something I am not,
so I accept people for the way they are if they won't to change then
they can do it without my help

Its simple women are from venus and men are from mars...{I'ts the
truth}.

thats really sweet danny! Im not sure either, its just a woman thing,

ya im doin everything with my cras im goin back in to what i love the
most that will naver leave cras i love workin on them to go faster and
race thme will not on a track but on the streets im really good at
drivin im not goin to let some gurl fuck with me like that and get me
to stop with my life she mad it to were if i was not with her that i
have no life i have my son my job and my street racin i have everything
that i need and i cant weat to get the fuck out of rhode island this
place fuckin sucks fuck this shit

Good for you. Stay with your hobbies and eventually someone will like
you for you. I say the greatest line in life is "whatever". Let life
happen. When not looking, they all flock to you. I just play my guitar
and stay involved in my hobbies and it seems like I meet people all the
time. For those who want to change me I just wave goodbye. So I guess
the wall is up until you learn to trust them. Trust and respect are
things that are earned my friend.