I am new to this site and have been on it for about 24 hours. It is saying that I have not had one single person view my profile. I have emailed a number of people and I think it is telling me that the emails have been read. I would hope that at least one of the people I had emailed would have at least looked at my profile to see if they wanted to email me back!!! (have not had a single return email yet either) I believe the site is telling me that 8 of my emails have been read. Is this a sign that my emails were so lousy that I have not only had no replies, but no views of my profile either?!?! Or am I just inept at how to use this site?

There are over 5 million members on this site.
Rarely do they hang 24/7 reading profiles.
Most gals I know, travel in 'Stealth' mode,
which means you would not know if they 'viewed'
your profile.

Most success seems to be for those who enjoin
the forums, get to know people, flash the charm,
unlock the hearts.

There is nothing unusual about it taking more
than 24 hours to connect :-)

Thank you so much! Just nice to actually get a response from someone on here. It did not feel like I even existed here!!!

You are tall, it really won't be a problem :-)

There seems to be more males than females, so
they can be..pickyish, that is why posting to
the forums gets you more attention than waiting
for that one big fish to wiggle by :-)

Soufiehere,

Hey, would you please do me a favor? Take yourself off of "stealth mode" (did not know there was such a thing!) and view my profile. That way I can see that at least one person has looked at me!!!

Thanks much, and sorry to bother you!!!

Is there anyway to know if anyone I want to get in touch with is in a forum other than just searching all of them manually?

Your wish is my command, turned off 'Stealth' and
'viewed' your profile, sent you an email, then
turned my 'Stealth' back on :-)

Yes.
You can enter their usernumber where the 'Xs' appear below:
http://mingle2.com/forum/show_posts_by_user/XXXXXXX

You can get their usernumber by visiting their profile, the
last digits in the address box will be their usernumber.

You can also right click on their username, get a drop-down
menu, select 'Properties' and take the usernumber from the
URL (link) presented.

You sound desperate, you need to chill out...first!!!

I do not think many women have that problem; of not getting any Views. I know I don't. Too many men view me on a daily bases. Problem is most can not email me, because they are Much too young and I have my age filters on. I wish there was a Way to Block Viewers unless they are within my Age limit.